[mcrist0828]

My sister has filed a harassment charges against me. This has been going on for years, we really have no love loss, she is extremely hard to get along with, controlling and argues with everyone. The only ones in the entire family that talk to her is my grandma and father. Her son left her house and moved in with me at 18. Wow, life has not been the same. She has called and emailed some pretty nasty stuff to me and my nephew, plus emailed his new school about me allowing things like drugs and alcohol (never), email the college he was going to apply for and told them a bunch of lies about me, him and his girlfriend (how currently attends there). I did respond (I know I shouldn't have) but always encouraged her to fix things with her son. We had no contact after the police said don't contact her and In my last email I told her to not contact my home again in September. Out of the blue she emails me on 12-21 complaining about my nephew having a C. I said I would talk to him. I thought everything was fine and I emailed her concerning tax stuff and her dropping my nephews health care... things got heated and I finally sent her a notarized guardianship letter... she called the state police. I know I guilty of some things but she contacted me first on December 21st? I'm waiting for my citation in the mail. I think I should plead NOT GUILTY?

[twinkiedooter]

He's 18. Why would his mother keep hounding you about her son? Things would be different if he was say 16. Why did you get a guardianship paperwork on him in the first place?

Also, change your email and your phone number if you wish no further contact with her. Inform her via a letter that she can contact you and her son only via letter from now on and keep it that way.

He needs to inform his present school not to discuss his grades or anything else with his mother as he is an adult and she is not paying his college tuition. (at least I hope she isn't).

Steer clear of her altogether.

Have you contacted the courts to see if anything was filed against you in this matter?

Why would she call the State Police on you? I don't understand her actions at all.

[mcrist0828]

She is nuts with control. The reason she contacts the school is in PA parents have educational rights until 21. I have fought this even with a guardianship letter ( the school said, they can't talk to me or won't me with me) he has asked that they don't discuss anything with her and they said, she has educational rights! Well, the only solution we could come up with was to petition for an adult adoption... which we did. He can be adopted due to being 18 uncontested but can't control his own schooling? Well once the adoption is final, she has to be removed! I hate to do this but she has lost her mind. She is very controlling... I had no choice.