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azzyka · Jan 21, 2010, 05:01 AM

Hi I'm 12 years old and I'm having sexual thoughts of everyone I know (girls and boys)... im very worried about this is it normal?? Another question is watever I do I think of sex and I don't know why?? I'm so worried about this situation what should I do about it... can you please help me understand what and I going thought as I think this is not normal... please reply and please help me..
Very Worried...

KISS · Jan 21, 2010, 06:25 AM

I could actually say it is normal. From my Sexuality class, there may be experimentaion with the same sex at this time as well.

Your hormones are raging. Not much you can do about it.

Eventually, you may fall into a continuum of what sex your attracted to and how much your attracted to.

You could end up essentially Bi. Liking makes and females on an equal basis or totally heterosexual or homosexual or somewhere in between. You could also like being single and not really attracted to either sex.

All from my sexuality class.

J_9 · Jan 21, 2010, 07:20 AM

Originally Posted by KeepItSimpleStupid

I could actually say it is normal. From my Sexuality class, there may be experimentaion with the same sex at this time as well.

Your hormones are raging. Not much you can do about it.

Eventually, you may fall into a continuum of what sex your attracted to and how much your attracted to.

You could end up essentially Bi. Liking makes and females on an equal basis or totally heterosexual or homosexual or somewhere in between. You could also like being single and not really attracted to either sex.

All from my sexuality class.

This answer was SO inappropriate on so many levels.

The ONLY thing I agree with here is that the hormones are raging now. It is not uncommon to wonder. Sex is natural and normal, but at your age should be only a thought and never acted upon.

You are at the age where girls are developing breasts and curves. Boys are getting deeper voices, body hair and beginning to become muscular. You are noticing the changes that come with growing up. All of this is a part of nature.

KISS · Jan 21, 2010, 07:15 PM

Agreed. Although correct. It's not age appropriate.

Alty · Jan 21, 2010, 08:18 PM

To the OP. You're 12. That's really all I should have to say.

Yes your body is changing, yes you're mind is racing, yes you're wondering, but should you? No.

You're 12!

Sweetie, just be 12 right now. There's plenty of time for sex later on in your life, trust me. Don't be in such a hurry to grow up because one thing I can promise you, you'll regret it.

Just be 12. :)

KISS · Jan 21, 2010, 08:23 PM

How true.

Can't spread the rep.

Lexilulu · Jan 23, 2010, 11:58 AM

I was the same way, I always felt guilty... But truth, you shouldn't, everyone goes through puberty, and has those thoughts... But you should try not to, mainly because the person your thinking about probably doesn't want you to think about them like that:)... But EVERYONE has that at some point, So it is normal... Don't be worried, just try thinking about something else... Idk if this helped or not;)