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    posheak Posts: 51, Reputation: -1
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    Nov 17, 2006, 12:51 PM
    Dumped for your best friend or dumped for your best enemY?
    Which is worse and why?:(
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    Nov 17, 2006, 01:36 PM
    Your best friend is better of course! Because then you will be constantly updated as to just why you are better off without a person like that in the first place. There's nothing like a daily affirmation. :D
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    Mar 23, 2007, 02:23 AM
    I disagree - best friend is much worse surely. Then you are being attacked by more people in the world than you were before! At least your enemy already hated you (or you them).
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    Oct 16, 2007, 08:57 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by posheak
    which is worse and why?:(
    Being dumped for your best friendd is a trust issue-breaks all kinds of trusts (both friend and significant other) takes a long time to learn to trust again
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    Oct 16, 2007, 08:58 PM
    Worse has to be best friend at the onset. Although I think ultimately in the long run your worst enemy would be worse.
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    Jun 10, 2008, 07:36 AM
    Ughh tough. If its your best friend, you lose a friendship as well. But if its your worst enemy... that is just torture
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    Nov 30, 2008, 06:15 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teeny94 View Post
    I disagree - best friend is much worse surely. Then you are being attacked by more people in the world than you were before!! At least your enemy already hated you (or you them).
    That's rite! If he dumps you for your enemy that's better because you already hated each other. If he dumps you for your best friend, it'll ruin a friendship. For a while at least
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    Aug 4, 2009, 03:47 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by posheak View Post
    which is worse and why?:(
    Why focus on the negative?:cool:

    How about get your ex back from your (ex) best friend?:eek:

    Now your (ex) best friend not only lost a good friend (you) but their (BF/GF) as well.

    If you want more free information on how to go about doing that contact me... OK?:cool:
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    Aug 4, 2009, 07:24 PM

    Best friend, you lose two people that are close to you and are supposed to be able to trust
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    Aug 4, 2009, 08:23 PM

    I had a friend who that happened to - she was devastated. After living with her guy for like 5 years, she one day went on a trip overseas and when she came back, she saw her best friend of 11 years sleeping with her boyfriend on their bed.
    My friend got kicked out as her boyfriend chose the best friend over her! Can you believe that crap? Oh, and this so called best friend (skank) had herpes.
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    Nov 28, 2009, 03:56 AM
    Well being dumped for your best friend is a 2 way street- your best friend betrays you as well as your significant other. The question is rather ironic though because wouldn't your best friend be your worst enemy after he/she betrays you?

    This situation (being dumped for your best friend) is one of the hardest things a human can go through because the two closest people to you that you trust the most let's you down, you don't have anyone to go to for healing. The good news is- if you have ever gone through this than you know life gets easier knowing that you have already faced the worst possible pain.
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