[chantal1]

I'm having a relationship with a guy that has been my friend and I'm very spiritual and close to god I feel soguilty after sex because fall into it knowing its wrong I want to live right and pleasing to god so must I just not have a relationship causei feel even if I'm married I will feel this way

[mudweiser]

Is he religious too?

What are his feelings about this?

In my opinion, I believe you should be able to share your body with whomever you want. It's great that your sharing it with someone whom you love. All your missing is a piece of paper.

... but that's just my opinion.

[Romefalls19]

Communicate this with him, tell him that you do love him, but think that sex should be withheld until marriage. If you can't communicate now, how will you later in the relationship?

[Devorameira]

You have to talk to him about how you feel. You don't have to do anything that makes you feel guilty!

[callyj]

This is true and you don't have to feel guilty about anything sexual when your married because God said the marriage bed is Holy, the reunion between a man and a women is a holy one, blessed by Him, that includes the sex you have in your marriage. There is no need for guilt when you are married.