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cindy6820 · Jan 4, 2010, 07:05 PM

Hi
In looking for my friend birth mom . U see she had died on dec 18/2009. Her name is ann-marie louise lampert . She ask me to find her . Before she died . So I have been work on it none stop .I need all the help I can get
U see I can't let her down . I need to know I have done all I have done
Were are out of Indiana . She was born in long island ny. Is there any way find the paper work . Of her birth mom

cindy6820 · Jan 4, 2010, 07:14 PM

Originally Posted by Synnen

Put yourself in your mother's position--EITHER of your "real" mothers: your adoptive mother and your birthmother.

You have no RIGHT to know anything more than your medical information. It also sounds like you are under 18--which means you have no "right" to anything your adoptive parents don't want to tell you.

Maybe your "overprotective" parents who think you are "never going to grow up" feel that way because you are ACTING like a child.

It doesn't MATTER who gave birth to you, as long as SOMEONE loved you and did the best they could to raise you.

U keep looking . Because u need it . My friend was looking for her and she could not get the job done . And know hse died . On dec 18/09. Know it is my place to fond them for her.

Synnen · Jan 5, 2010, 06:59 AM

First off, it's a very bad idea to piggyback your question onto someone else's question--so I've moved it to its own question.

Secondly--we at AMHD do not condone chat speak. Please use proper English when typing out your question.

Thirdly, if you can find her biological parents without her, and without hiring a private detective, please let us know how you do it.

YOU have no right to search. This is not YOUR record. No adoption agency will give you the information. No courthouse will give you any information, and while you *could* register on reunion websites--that would be unkind of you, wouldn't it, to list your friend as though she were still alive and looking for her biological parents?

What do your friend's adoptive parents have to say about this?

For that matter, how old are you, and how old was your friend?

yelloroseny · Sep 19, 2012, 02:21 PM

Cindy Contact me I am AnnMarie s cousin . <EMAIL REMOVED> She has many cousins who loved her very much, we all lost contact over the years. In the Memo just type her name so I know to open it. So Grateful I found this message board Thank You Patty

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