[confuzed1]

There's this guy who is in one of my clases and sometimes sees me in the hall way. When I do know that he is staring at me it is because I can see him out of the corner of my eye. When I am busy doing something and just happen to look up in his direction, he quickly looks away. I do not understand!

[sabrewolfe]

Guys are just more stimulated visually, by what we see. Not to say that it isn't rude to stare.

[confuzed1]

O OK. What could I say to this boy who won't stop staring at me? In a non-rude way.

[KISS]

I'd think of it as a compliment.

Would this work? "Do you like me or something?"

[confuzed1]

I would think of it as a complement too, except for the fact that I have no idea why he is staring at me..
Is it a good idea to find out why 1st?

[KISS]

The why is that your attractive to him. It doesn't necessarily mean that he likes you. Visually, your attractive or some part of you is. It could be anybody. It could be a girl has a nice butt, nice legs, nice face, curves in the right places, etc.

Way back when I learned about body language the two on the top of the list is eye to body then eye to eye, then I think voice to voice. It's been about 35 years. There are like 12 contacts.

[confuzed1]

O okay, so he's basically just checking me out in a way. What are the other contacts? I'm curious just to know

[KISS]

It would take me a while to figure it out, but it ultimately ends genitals to genitals. (eye, body, mouth, voice, hand, breast, genitals) enter into the permutations in which some don't make much sense like breast to genitals)

It basically says that a relationship tyically follows that progression.\

[confuzed1]

O OK I see. So guys who stare are might be just lusting. What else could I ask besides if he likes me?

[KISS]

Maybe not even that. Given your ages, he just may like you, but too shy to ask. Sometimes when someone is extremely attractive, men think they are off limits.

Catch him off guard and ask him to "Wanna go bowling/roller skating etc. on Saturday?

[confuzed1]

O, I see! And I did not know that on the off limits thing, I thought that was only with people who are taken (aka dating).

That could work too, depends on when I see him next too. So asking him this might show how he feels or something?

[confuzed1]

Still does the same thing. I did not want to ask him. He is kind of nice to me but is still quiet. I haven't paid much attention to him. Reason being of all this is because I have a boyfriend, we have been dating for 4 months now :D!

[Jeha]

Well I'll tell you when I see a girl that "looks good" I will mostlikely star only because I'm like "dam" she looks so good. Its prob the same with the boys that look at you

[confuzed1]

haha. O, I see. Thank you, that helped a lot =)