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spitvenom · Dec 4, 2009, 10:19 AM

Wow Alty you sound like a friend of mine. I know of 3 guys who have her name tattooed on them. They all got them within a month a meeting her. And one of them proposed to her after she got a restraining order against him. Crazy!

Stringer · Dec 4, 2009, 11:39 AM

Originally Posted by Just Dahlia

We had grilled steak and salmon with some french bread, watched 'Christmas vacation' and decorated the tree.:)
It was a relaxing evening.

Sounds very nice JD.

Unknown008 · Dec 4, 2009, 12:50 PM

Happy anniversary JD :)

mudweiser · Dec 4, 2009, 01:01 PM

Originally Posted by redhed35

simple and effective.

its the guys that start crying that get me,too late for the tears baby,they were not crying when they were sleeping with the hussey down the road...far from it in fact!

Personally, I like the crying + begging on the knees.

Makes me feel like some sort of powerful woman.

I should look into the dominatrix business...

Alty · Dec 4, 2009, 06:28 PM

Originally Posted by spitvenom

Wow Alty you sound like a friend of mine. I know of 3 guys who have her name tattooed on them. They all got them within a month a meeting her. And one of them proposed to her after she got a restraining order against him. crazy!

The guy that proposed, even though we were no longer together, actually called me the day before my wedding and said "When you finally come to your senses I'll be waiting".

Yup, time to renew the restraining order.

He'd also send flowers every day. He'd leave notes on my car. He was definitely not going to take no for an answer.

I wonder how he's doing now? No, I won't try and find out. :eek:

redhed35 · Dec 5, 2009, 05:07 AM

Alty,you were a regular femme fatale!

jmjoseph · Dec 5, 2009, 06:48 AM

Originally Posted by Altenweg

The guy that proposed, even though we were no longer together, actually called me the day before my wedding and said "When you finally come to your senses I'll be waiting".

Yup, time to renew the restraining order.

He'd also send flowers every day. He'd leave notes on my car. He was definitely not going to take no for an answer.

I wonder how he's doing now? No, I won't try and find out. :eek:

Now that you finally ask, I am fine. I waited and waited.

It's too late now , I gave that ring to someone else.

You could be having grits for breakfast.

Alty · Dec 5, 2009, 11:35 AM

Originally Posted by redhed35

alty,you were a regular femme fatale!

Moi? Na! ;)

I just had a very bad habit of picking unstable guys to date.

I ended up with a good one though. I think! :eek:

Alty · Dec 5, 2009, 11:36 AM

Originally Posted by jmjoseph

Now that you finally ask, I am fine. I waited and waited.

It's too late now , I gave that ring to someone else.

You could be having grits for breakfast.

:eek: :eek: :eek:

Unknown008 · Dec 5, 2009, 11:49 AM

Do... do you know each other in reality! :eek:

Alty · Dec 5, 2009, 11:51 AM

Originally Posted by Unknown008

Do... do you know each other in reality!? :eek:

That's what I want to know! :eek:

LOL! I know it's not my former stalker because JM said he gave the ring to someone else and he never got the ring back. He wouldn't take it back. I tried every which way but he wouldn't.

I finally sold it to dollars4Gold a while back. I don't want a constant reminder of him in my house.

jmjoseph · Dec 5, 2009, 12:34 PM

Originally Posted by Unknown008

Do... do you know each other in reality!? :eek:

No, I'm in a different age bracket. Baby boomer, tail end.

Besides, I'm not her type.

We both like rabbits.

For different reasons.

I'm not a stalker... any more.

I think calling the day before your wedding was the work of a tool.

Alty · Dec 5, 2009, 12:37 PM

Originally Posted by jmjoseph

No, I'm in a different age bracket. Baby boomer, tail end.

Besides, I'm not her type.

We both like rabbits.

For different reasons.

I'm not a stalker.........................any more.

I think calling the day before your wedding was the work of a tool.

You eat rabbits! :eek:

We need to talk. ;)

He was a tool. I should have known it from the beginning but I was young, stupid, didn't think things through. Learning from your mistakes is a good thing. ;)

He was also abusive. I really should have known better.

jmjoseph · Dec 5, 2009, 12:42 PM

Originally Posted by Altenweg

You eat rabbits! :eek:

We need to talk. ;)

He was a tool. I should have known it from the beginning but I was young, stupid, didn't think things through. Learning from your mistakes is a good thing. ;)

He was also abusive. I really should have known better.

Yes, we all learn from those mistakes we made when we were young. That's what makes it so hard to help someone that is getting beaten by a guy and won't leave.

They think they are loved. Meanwhile they are bruised and broken.

Alty · Dec 5, 2009, 12:51 PM

Originally Posted by jmjoseph

Yes, we all learn from those mistakes we made when we were young. That's what makes it so hard to help someone that is getting beaten by a guy and won't leave.

They think they are loved. Meanwhile they are bruised and broken.

I hate to admit that I gave him another chance even after he hit me. Not as a boyfriend, but as a friend. Sadly he never did accept that we could only be friends and nothing more.

The first hit should be the last. Sadly most people go back for more. :(

mudweiser · Dec 5, 2009, 01:13 PM

Originally Posted by Altenweg

I hate to admit that I gave him another chance even after he hit me. Not as a boyfriend, but as a friend. Sadly he never did accept that we could only be friends and nothing more.

The first hit should be the last. Sadly most people go back for more. :(

--can I say it... I will.

Sadly most people go back for more... until they get some sense knocked into them.

:eek::eek:

Alty · Dec 5, 2009, 01:15 PM

Originally Posted by mudweiser

--can I say it...I will.

Sadly most people go back for more.... until they get some sense knocked into them.

:eek::eek:

It takes some people longer then others, then there are those that never leave.

It's a learning curve. Learning that you can't change someone and sometimes you just have to leave.

mudweiser · Dec 5, 2009, 01:21 PM

Originally Posted by Altenweg

It takes some people longer then others, then there are those that never leave.

It's a learning curve. Learning that you can't change someone and sometimes you just have to leave.

Oh I agree, my sister didn't leave her other husband after 10 years:eek: [they were together since.. you guessed it high school]

Now she's happily married to #2... :)

Men like should be dropped at an island and go through some brutal therapy until they are better men... or they can just die in a hole..

Well women abuse too. An old friend wour hit her [scrawny] boyfriend and he's STILL with her-- kind of weird... but still just as serious..

Alty · Dec 5, 2009, 01:24 PM

Abuse is abuse, it doesn't matter who is wielding it, male or female, it's still abuse and no one should put up with that.

I just don't understand how someone can stay with someone that hits them or mentally abuses them. That's not love. People that love you don't hurt you.

mudweiser · Dec 5, 2009, 01:31 PM

Originally Posted by Altenweg

Abuse is abuse, it doesn't matter who is wielding it, male or female, it's still abuse and no one should put up with that.

I just don't understand how someone can stay with someone that hits them or mentally abuses them. That's not love. People that love you don't hurt you.

Like you said it takes time [you said that right?]

Sigh

First hit should be the time where you walk away [forever].