[talaniman]

You got hurt, she didn't. She doesn't feel your pain. Don't expect her too. Expect nothing good from her.

[vanheart]

If you remember anything during this our any other time you get dumped is that.

Thanks Tal for boiling that. U rock.
That may become a stickie.

Nicely put.

[amicon]

Her feelings,thoughts etc doesn't matter anymore.

Move past this kind of third party communication that only restarts confusion.

Onwards and upwards!

[tragedy]

Guys, it's me again. Been busy packing, as I'm leaving in the next few weeks. My mate just filled me in that my ex will be leaving to another part of the world two weeks before I leave the town. I don't know why, but I feel that I'm being dumped again for the second time. Of course, it's nothing like the first time when I got dumped. Why do I still feel this way?

[amicon]

Why indeed?

Possibly because you are leaving,she is leaving and it's very final.

Keep busy with your packing and don't overanalyze things.

Onwards and upwards,remember?

[tragedy]

Yea, I remember onwards and upwards. I just feel a little sad, as we really been through a lot. To some certain extend, I can't deny that I still care for her because she's someone that I loved so much compared to my previous exes. I guess I'm at the end of the chapter... and I'm wondering if I should tell her 'All the best'... What do you think?

[amicon]

Feeling sad is OK,but I wouldn't get in touch with her.

Let bygones be bygones.

Look forward to your new life.

[talaniman]

Just handle your business, and let the sadness pass. Its only a temporary feeling and you don't have to make it bigger than what it is. No need to make an event of it, just work through it.

[tragedy]

Hi guys, I don't know why, but I haven't been peaceful these couple of days. I guess knowing the fact she is moving away to another part of the world next week is kind of disturbing. And I admit that my eyes were filled with tears when I took a stroll down to the memory lane. I just feel sad...