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    lvhol Posts: 12, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    Nov 6, 2009, 10:44 PM
    Friends or guys?
    I have this club that I go to and there's this really sweet guy there I really like him I am not sure if I like like him or like him just as a friend he's really nice but my friend who goes to the club to thinks he is a totall LBR losser behond repair but I kind of like him
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    redhed35 Posts: 4,221, Reputation: 1910
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    Nov 6, 2009, 10:48 PM
    If you like him why don't you try and talk to him,see if you really do like him.

    We all have different tastes,just because your friend does not like him does not mean you have to as well!

    You don't have to jump in straight away,just get to know him first,become friends and see if you get along.
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    I wish Posts: 5,296, Reputation: 2030
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    #3

    Nov 7, 2009, 06:19 AM

    It's too early to jump into a relationship. Just focus on getting to know him better by talking to him more.

    You can listen to rumors about him or you can find things out for yourself.
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    Nov 7, 2009, 06:32 AM

    It is clear that you are attracted to him. But take it slow. Please don't imagine that you are falling for him even if you really are.

    Approach him and treat him as a good friend first, and move casually with him. Take things lightly initially, and then if he is really sweet guy, you will find yourself missing him, and really liking him for what he is as a person.. That is when you decide to take it to a relationship level.

    Why does your friend think that he is a loser? May be your friend has some solid reason, find out! If your friend doesn't have a proper answer, then find out for yourself... But please judge before you leap.
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    jaime90 Posts: 1,157, Reputation: 163
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    Nov 7, 2009, 08:00 AM

    Get to know him more as a friend, and then make your decision. If you like him, get to know him. You shouldn't form an opinion about him unless you know him anyway.

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