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molly_oscar · Oct 17, 2009, 07:57 PM

Hey, my names izabella!

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 2 years (im now 14)
And we are really passionate about each other and every time I see him we pash and sometimes do oral sex and stuff like that, and latley we have been thinking about having sex with each other, I want to have sex with him but I want to know if it is the right thing to do or if it is worth waiting or ing now?? :)

jmjoseph · Oct 17, 2009, 08:00 PM

Wait. There's plenty of time to do things like have sex. You are 14, how old is your boyfriend?

molly_oscar · Oct 17, 2009, 08:06 PM

16 going on 17

Fr_Chuck · Oct 17, 2009, 08:15 PM

Anywhere in the US, this is called rape, even if you ask him to, or agree to. So even having oral sex makes him a criminal and he could go to jail for years because he is doing this with you.

So if you really hate him and want him in prison, go ahead.

molly_oscar · Oct 17, 2009, 08:19 PM

Izabella,

My boyfriend jaycob, took me to a party well atchelly it was a sex party, one of his friends set up, the whole house was full of people making out and doing other things, and there was lots of alchole and other things like that, anyway my boyfriend took me out the back where other people were having sex and one of his friends who was pissed of his face, kept trying to come on to me even though I was like 3 or 4 years younger that everyone at the party since my boyfriend is almost 17 and I'm 14 almost 15, anyway jaycob hit the guy and was really protective until he wanted me to join in with the group sex that was going on, I was a little nervous at first because they were all older so anyway jaycob starting taking my shirt off and he was getting really horney about it all, then I changed my mind and I wanted to go home so hhe took me home but he was kind of annoyed at me, was it mean of me to make him take me home?? :confused:

molly_oscar · Oct 17, 2009, 08:23 PM

I live in australia, Lol no I don't hate him I love him a lot.:p

Fr_Chuck · Oct 17, 2009, 08:26 PM

First please stop posting in the introduction area, that is just where you say HI, and tell who you are. I am getting tired of having to move your posts.

Also stop asking similar questions, this should have merely been added to this first question, you can do that by answering your own question with additional info

1. you were stupid for going in the first place, a 14 year old has business even going to a party like that.

2. your boyfriend is guilty of several criminal acts just taking you there at least in my state in the US. ( GA)

3. and no you were correct in making him take you home. Most likely you would have ended up having sex with 2 or 3 of the older guys at that point.

4 and 5, you should dump this jerk, he is only interested in you for sex and let me see drinking, physcial fighting and sex, somewhere I don't see any mature behavior to me

Fr_Chuck · Oct 17, 2009, 08:27 PM

Originally Posted by molly_oscar

i live in australia, ! lol no i dnt hate him i love him a lot.:p

So tell your parents all the fun things he is doing, I am sure they will feel the "love" also

molly_oscar · Oct 17, 2009, 08:30 PM

***** edited for content. Fr Chuck

I want to thank you all for all your advice.

*** like yea they did not say that, they basically cursed us for trying to save their childhood. I guess telling them what the heck, lay two or three guys, msot likely with no protection, get some VD and pregnant, then we can give more advice.

And I am closing the thread