[roundhead]

Hi, I am 34 and was circumcised at birth. Over the years I have become very jealous of uncut males and their foreskins. Although my wife tells me she prefers a cut penis, it feels to me like I don't have the best sensitivity when achiving an orgasm. Can anyone tell me if there is a way to increase sensitivity, without going through foreskin restoration. There is a new product on the market called senslip, which is a false foreskin, but is very expensive. This would be ideal to restore the softness of the glans and nerve endings for sensitivity, but does anyone maybe have some advise to soften the glans and restore nerve endings for a better orgasm?

[helixfire]

This is a very unusual question. I don't think I quite understand how you can be jealous of something when you haven't felt it in the first place.

[roundhead]

Hi Helixfire,

Thank you for your comments.

I realise from your response that it is indeed a strange question, not having felt it. However to answer your question, my brother in law who was recently circumcised at the age of 35, due to a skin problem, discussed with me the difference in sensitivity he is now experiencing after the procedure. He claims his orgasms are not as intense as when he had a foreskin. I don't know if you are married or not, but I have been married for 9 years and the drop in frequency of sexual intamacy, has caused me to start masturbating on a more regular basis. From having watched my fair share of porno graphic entertainment, it just seems to me that an uncut males glans is not as hard as that of a cut male. Of course, as you say I have never felt an orgasm having a foreskin, but it just seems as though it is better, hence my question of being able to improve the sensitivity of the glans.

[guy26]

I ended up using the SensSlip. I had been wondering about the sensitivity issue thing myself for quite some time. I was also circumcised at birth and it seemed to take a lot longer for me to reach orgasm through penatrative sex when compared to others. It took a while to be comfortable with the whole idea of wearing the SensSlip and figuring out how to get it on, but it has been worth it. I noticed some improvement in sensitivity within about a week, but after a couple of months... wow. I absolutely love the extra sensitivity and I even enjoy the simple pleasure of masturbation a lot more now.

It is sensitive enough now that I cannot wear nylon underwear to bed because I wake up in the middle of the night from noctural erections. So instead I stick to cotton. And when I have forgotten to put it on and do a lot of walking that day, I become very aware of my penis brushing against my boxers. I guess maybe there are some downsides to being more sensitive. :) For me, it is well worth the trouble and expense.

If you don't want the expense of wearing the SensSlip, then try naturally restoring your foreskin. Do some googling around. You have to be VERY patient as it can take up to 2-3 years to get the coverage that you want. If anything the SensSlip might be a good idea to try out if you plan on restoring your foreskin.

If you do end up trying the SensSlip, make sure you get the right size! Measure several times over a few days and get the trial pack. Anyway, good look. I hope I answered your question.

P.S. I would recommend talking to your wife/girlfriend/boyfriend before using it. I made the mistake of not doing that and ended up in a very awkward situation for a moment. LoL. I got to a point where I didn't even think about it and he ended up reaching down my pants one day. Lets just say he was shocked. After talking to him and some time, he is very understanding and is also surprised at the improvement in sensitivity. He doesn't want me to restore my foreskin, so I'll just keep wearing it.

P.P.S. Most people don't seem to be mature enough to talk about this issue or product.

[kp2171]

I didn't have my son circumcised for this, among other, reasons.

You don't cut off the skin over the clitoris and let it dry out. There's speculation that keeping the glans covered increases sensitivity and keeps it softer in the same way. Not to mention there are a lot of nerves in the skin cut away.

There's a lot is misinformation about cleanliness and disease tied to being uncut that is either untrue or misleading.

Of course increased masturbation and deflecting your interest from your spouse to porn isn't helping you. Yes I'm married, 7 years now. Yes, it is harder to find the time and its easy to be distracted or disengaged. But masturbation and porn are likely only hurting your sexual experience with your spouse... unless shed rather you just take care of it yourself.

[guy26]

Actually the improved sensitivity hasn't increased the amount of masturbation for me, it has just made it much more enjoyable. The same goes for sex.

Just in case you are curious, my sex drive is higher than my other half's sex drive. This is not an uncommon situation even in gay relationships. Most of the time I do not look at porn while masterbating. My other half is nearly always aware of when I do it and he is usually in the other room. So really it isn't a big deal for either one of us. And some times we just enjoy mutal masturbation if we are both tired or don't have a lot of time. In general, we enjoy plenty of intimate moments together. Personally I don't think its too bad to look at porn on occasion, but I agree that if it starts to interfere with your relationship than maybe you should re-evaluate things.

P.S. We have been together for almost 6 years now.

P.P.S. I'm glad to hear that at least some parents are changing their minds on circumcision.