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Soccerchick39 · Sep 30, 2009, 05:20 PM

Hey everyone,

Ok I really need your help, Well you see me and this guy were kind of and on last year but one of us always seemed to like the other one. Now that the new year school year has started and I haven't seen him all summer, he likes me again and I like him to but he has a chance. He told me he was going to break up with his girlfriend for me but now he says he is in love with her and doesn's like me anymore. I just don't understand, and now he won't evern be my friend talk to me or text me back I don't know what to do and I need your help thanks. :confused::(

DerelictHerds · Sep 30, 2009, 05:40 PM

How old are you two?

Soccerchick39 · Sep 30, 2009, 05:53 PM

Originally Posted by derelictherds

how old are you two?

13

shazamataz · Oct 1, 2009, 03:47 AM

You have made him uncomfortable...
He is with his girlfriend and has made it obvious that he does not want a relationship with you.

You can talk to him and tell him that you only want to be friends but if he still does not want to talk to you then find yourself some new friends.

Fr_Chuck · Oct 1, 2009, 04:32 AM

There are often no second chances, and sometimes there are but it may be years down the road.

You can't force or make anyone feel anything. You have to just take it as it comes and except that things don't always work the way we want

ZoeMarie · Oct 1, 2009, 05:07 AM

He's doing exactly what we would advise him to do if he were to come on here and say that he was in love with his girlfriend but there's a girl that he used to see that's been contacting him. We would tell him to cut contact with this girl so he doesn't ruin the relationship he's in. I don't mean to sound harsh, but he's doing the right thing if he cares about his girlfriend. It would be one thing if you didn't have those feelings for him and you remained friends, but it's easiest for all involved for you and he to go separate ways in this situation.