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    billyboy1995 Posts: 8, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 29, 2009, 09:54 PM
    Friend thinks I'm gay oy bi but I'm not.
    Hi. I have a really good friend but she thinks I am gay or a bi. No matter how many times I tell her I am not she still thinks I am only because I am a joker and I "flirt" with guys to scare them. She knows I have only dated girls but still insistes that I am gay.
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    Sep 29, 2009, 10:05 PM
    Hi, billyboy1995!

    What grade(s) are you and she in, please?

    Thanks!
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    Sep 30, 2009, 05:50 PM

    We are both in gr9.
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    Oct 1, 2009, 02:24 PM
    Hi again, billyboy1995!

    How about just ignoring her when she starts in again with saying that you're gay or bi?

    What do you think that she would do if you did that?

    Thanks!
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    Oct 3, 2009, 11:02 AM

    Hello I think that you should stop doing what you are doing with guys if you kept doing that she will keep thinking that you are gay or bi and try 2 spend more time with her than spending your time with guys
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    Oct 3, 2009, 12:25 PM

    There will always be people that think things about you that aren't true, the only way to deal with it is to ignore it && not let it bother you. The only thing that really matters is that you know you aren't gay or bi.

    I have a very flirty happy personality && I am extremely close with my best friend. She && I will joke around all the time, && on many occasions I have had people ask me if I was gay or bi, but I just say no, && move on with my life. No reason sweating the small stuff, you're still young, just live your life && have fun.

    Good luck!
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