Give and Take. Give and Receive. What are you sending and what is your partner receiving. Vice versa. You must send and receive both Emotionally and Physically. If you are alert and aware you will discover wins and losses in you communication and competition. Celebrate you wins and mourn you losses. Keep score. Count the wins and losses. Love to compete.
It's just that I have to do an assignment for my Theatre class where I fill out the twelve guideposts for a certain section of a play and I'm stuck on #7.