His excuse.. "im in college now, college relationships are a lot different then high school relationships" Which is BS I know. I just let it slide.
He is an adult among adults, and trying to build his future, yes it is a lot different from high school as he is responsible for himself. Given his past, he can't afford to screw up now, and really it's a good thing he seems to have learned his lesson and is straightening out his life.
He lives about 30 min. away which is another reason why its tough to hang out a lot.
Yes the distance does make it hard, as many adults have a problem with long distance relationships. Its hard to bond and grow together when the distance is between you.
I guess since its only been 4 months I shouldn't take things so seriously, but if its starting this rough are things just going to get worse?
Yes they will because your both dealing with two different worlds, and he has to seriously apply himself, which takes a lot of time and hard work. Plus you haven't known each other long at all and you may be seeing more into this than he does.
Or will they get better as things get more serious? I don't want to ruin my high school years with this drama. I only have 1 more year left and I want to have a good time!
Which is the reason you should be doing your thing and enjoying yourself because he seems busy getting his act together and staying out of trouble.
He knows that I could easily get another guy which makes me think.. maybe he just wants to be with me to keep him to himself?
I don't know what motivates him, but I do know that you haven't had that deep conversation so you both are on the same page and a lack of communications, plus the distance, is not the makings of a strong relationship.
I don't know, I would appreciate peoples opinions and advice on this relationship. I feel like he does not even care about me anymore. Someone help me out please! :confused:
I think you should be having a great time with others, who are doing the same thing, and leaving the serious stuff for later, when your better prepared, and it doesn't matter how mature you are, your still in high school, and not quite as ready for the hard cold world as yet. But you will be soon. If your as mature as you think you are, you can understand that, can't you? Wait for your time to be an adult. He doesn't have fun, and games on his mind.
That my advice, I hope it helps.