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    mic1989 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 31, 2009, 05:01 PM
    Don't know what to make of this
    Ive had this girl stopping at my place a couple of times and had sex.

    Now I asked her where I stand in the relationship and I get this as a reply

    I don't know, I want to be with someone but I don't want to be with anyone
    Now this is got me really confused, I'm currently not speaking to her for a while,

    What should I do?
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    Aug 31, 2009, 05:03 PM

    Move on. This girl is obviously not looking for a relationship right now.

    She seems very confused, so go find someone that's not as confused.

    Good luck.
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    Aug 31, 2009, 07:11 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by mic1989 View Post
    Ive had this girl stopping at my place a couple of times and had sex.
    Sounds like that's all it is , you both get your rocks off with no strings attached.

    Quote Originally Posted by mic1989 View Post

    Now I asked her where I stand in the relationship.

    Now this is got me really confused, im currently not speaking to her for a while,

    what should i do?
    You should either continue using each other for sex , or if your after something that she isn't and it's confusing you leave her be.

    Confusion over!
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    Aug 31, 2009, 07:40 PM



    Just one of those itchy days and you're there to scratch it for her.

    Will you pursue this or not?
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    Aug 31, 2009, 08:31 PM

    Do you have feelings for this girl? Is she also a friend, or just an acquaintance?


    Had same situation for me bro. I moved on, some girls just crave the no strings attached deal... While a guy like me isn't into that and got attached from the sex! If your like me, the sooner you NC the sooner you'll move on to someone better!
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    Sep 1, 2009, 08:28 AM

    Friends with benefits, is what you are, so are you okay with that??

    A booty call is all she wants.
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    Sep 1, 2009, 09:54 AM

    The others are right. All she wanted was a "friends with benefits" relationship with you. Now that you put the elephant in the room by indirectly confessing your feelings to her, she leaves. Can't be more clear than that.

    Having sex before even starting a relationship with the person is never a good idea. Learn from this experience for the future.
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