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    lcly21 Posts: 10, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 31, 2009, 02:21 AM
    Right techniques
    Me and my boyfriend are in our early 20's and we are together for 1.5 years already. It was both our first time to have sex on valentine's day last year. We tried numerous times before he got inside me. At the first attempt, I could feel him inside me very clearly with his penis pumping and continuously getting bigger inside me. The feeling was intense, painful but I enjoy to feel him inside me. However, after that first attempt, he still have a hard time getting in. His penis always slips on the lip of my vagina when he tries to enter due to my discharge and lubricant and we failed as both got very tired and we felt very disappointed. My boyfriend said he needs oral sex before he could enter as his penis will be hard enough, but I don't really like oral sex. Besides, there were times where his penis is hard enough to enter my vagina, I can't feel the feeling of his penis pumping to get bigger but it was all pain only. Nothing so special. And he got ejaculation very quickly before I feel anything special. Is that normal? Does anyone there can teach us the right techniques?
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    Mar 23, 2010, 02:01 PM

    The intense feelings you have while he's in you come from the sudden change of your emotions. Take for example... makeup sex...
    Make up sex is always the best and reason being, your emotions went from exploding pissed! To calm love. This can happen the other way as well... As for the oral sex thing, it will help him get harder!
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    Mar 23, 2010, 02:35 PM

    I suggest reading some sex books, honestly--the Joy of Sex, She Comes First, something along those lines. There are plenty of them out there.

    There should be NO problem for him to enter you unless:
    1. you have a medical problem
    2. You are not stimulated enough
    3. You are not relaxed enough

    I'm betting, personally, that it's number 3.

    WHY do you not enjoy oral sex? Is he GIVING oral sex as well as asking for it? Are you both taking your time over the appetizers (foreplay) before jumping straight into dinner?
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    Mar 23, 2010, 05:24 PM

    I would hope that she has learned something since August 2009.
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    Mar 24, 2010, 07:48 AM

    UGH---Usually I catch that.

    Thread closed. Thanks Cat.

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