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Mickey935 · Jul 23, 2009, 06:15 PM

I really need help I am 14 years old I live in n.ireland and I want to ask a girl out who's name is shania and is 13 years old and I think she is good-looking in my mind but other people think she isn't like some of my friends don't think she is.
So I need professional help to ask her out I am afraid she will say no we are really good friends and if I ask her out it might break up our friendship I don't want it to break it up.
Also I have never kissed a girl before in my life and I don't know really how to can someone help me please

N0help4u · Jul 23, 2009, 07:00 PM

Yes asking her out and it doesn't work out CAN kill a friendship.
Why don't you just keep being closer and closer friends and let time work every thing out.

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Just go for it and ask her out to the movies or something that isn't too involving. You never know till you try!

Torrid13 · Jul 23, 2009, 07:09 PM

I would suggest going out to the movies with a group first, and gauge her reaction to you from there.

Does she sit next to you? Talk to you the most often? Follow your lead? Laugh at everything you say?

If there are positive signs that point to her attraction, then I say go for it! But if not, perhaps it would be best not to ask and potentially make your friendship awkward.

elvis22 · Jul 24, 2009, 10:25 AM

I'm not a professional but I am 14. And this sounds to me like your in the very dangerous friend ZONE. Be terrified. And honestly I can't tell you a way to get out of it. Sorry. You should have said something much much earlier.

jjwoodhull · Jul 24, 2009, 10:26 AM

Organize a group activity - like movies, dinner or bowling. This will take the pressure off both of you. 13 and 14 is still pretty young - some parents would not allow their 13 year old daughters to date.

Chey5782 · Jul 24, 2009, 12:47 PM

Are you comfy doing something with your parents? That's what my mom allowed me to do when I was 13-14. I could go out with a boy but only if we went with their parents, or mine. I was kind of weird, but we always had fun.

liz28 · Jul 24, 2009, 01:50 PM

Slow down because your moving too fast. You didn't even ask her out yet but you want some kissing pointers?

I am glad you have your own mind and don't care what your friends think. Remember beauty is the eye of the beholder.

If you do take a chance to ask her out don't get down in the dumps if she saids no. At your age I wasn't allow to date. I had to wait until I was 16.

x-love · Jul 26, 2009, 07:29 AM

Dear Mickey, all I will advise you to do is to follow your mind. Your friends are not the people who want to date her, it's you. To you she is pretty&cool so go to her tell, tell her what you have on your mind for her don't be shy it will do you more good than bad. Because if you should delay, other of your friends who has been liking her will just get there before you.
So my dear Mickey, go tell her you love her and you will never hurt her in any way. Tell her she mean the whole world to you.:):p