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nini390 · Oct 17, 2006, 03:33 PM

OK. I'm getting so tired of this. There are seven guys who are messing with me. For the last few days, two of them would flirt or look at me with puppy eyes then next few days, other guys would flirt excessively or try to touch me. But they would ignore me or harass me the next day. Then the whole cycle begins. What's up with that?? Do they like me or they're just messing around?? Seriously.

wizzkid89 · Oct 17, 2006, 11:52 PM

When it comes to guys it's simple, if they give flirt it means they are interested. There a few cases in which there are guys that flirt just to flirt. But more often than not it means they are interested. Like a 90% chance. With guys they just don't accidentitally flirt, it's premeditated, so when they do flirt it's an obvious sign that they are into you.

unsure42 · Nov 13, 2006, 11:30 PM

Agree with wizzkid89, just don't let it go to far... if the touching gets inaproprate tell them to stop, if you don't it makes you look easy. Happened to my friend and now all the guys come to her to get some because she didn't learn to say no.

kp2171 · Nov 13, 2006, 11:46 PM

They're idiots. They're boys. I was one once. I too was an idiot. My wife might dispute the past tense.

Ignore them as best you can. The touching thing is another issue. How old are you and where is this happening? School? Outside school?

nini390 · Nov 14, 2006, 06:00 AM

I am 15. Usually during lunch, they would slap or grab my , sometimes really hard that I almost cry. I told my teacher about it, she warned them not to do that again or she'll get them suspended.

Sentra · Nov 14, 2006, 06:07 AM

Start standing up for yourself if they try touching you again, and make it known EVERY time to your teachers or any other school official, then, don't talk to them unless you absolutely have to. I went through that my freshman year of high school. *shudder*

Avoid them, if possible.

kp2171 · Nov 14, 2006, 09:52 AM

If it persists skip the teacher and go to the school office. Sexual harassment should not be a part of your school day and theyd better take the threat seriously.

wizzkid89 · Nov 14, 2006, 03:42 PM

It really is sad how kids are acting today...

Skell · Nov 14, 2006, 04:02 PM

Your letting them flirt with you by paying them any attention.

Simply ignore them and don't give them the time of day and I bet the problem goes away.

If touching persists then talk to a teacher!

Sentra · Nov 15, 2006, 04:59 AM

Originally Posted by wizzkid89

It really is sad how kids are acting today.......

Indeed!

rrr · Jan 3, 2007, 08:57 AM

Seriosly, I'm a guy and I HATE that behaviour. It isn't right, acting like that.
Good luck and don't take no sh**

Silverdew · Jan 5, 2007, 02:13 PM

Er... that's what guys do around this age and we girls tend to do it too o_O anyway... if they get really annoying ignore them!! if it get like very serious ask a trustworthy teacher for help!

Tegzbabes · Feb 27, 2009, 02:33 PM

Well, one things for sure, this is NOT sexual harassment. This is just some teenage boys messing around. If you don't want them too and want them to stop then tell them, or go to a teacher as you have don't. But the only time it is sexual harassment is if its SERIOUS and this is not. My 12 year old sister gets her arse slapped by other boys in her year. But there is nothing wrong with it unless you want them to stop and they won't. And even the, its not sexual harassment!