[smoothy]

Wow smoothie, as a female I have to say, thank you. In my fantasy world that would be ideal! However, speaking as a very sexually demanding, or just plain demanding woman. I happen to know plenty of guys who not only would disagree, but actually do this. It's admirable that a man would profess to be so manly. But I am not buying it, laziness or just wanting to blow off some steam without bugging her happens all the time. If you've never whacked it when your wife was asleep and you wanted to get some without having to wake her up and get her in the mood and spend 45 minutes fondling the squishy bits, then you are actually more of a minority than a majority.

And if I am way wrong, send me a list of these guys, I have plenty of girlfriends who need a man that attentive in their lives. ;)

17 years of marriage and counting... I can say not once in that time have I have to resort to visiting Rosey Palmer and her sisters. And actually wife is usually receptive, subtle hints, if the urge hits me during the night, I squeeze her butt if she's sleeping on her front, her crotch if she's on her back... she'll usually respond buy grabbibng my crotch.. then I know she's willing.in the odd times she doesn't, its not a big deal for me to wait a few hours until the morning, but that's rarely the case because its usually our nightcap before going to sleep every night. That works both ways too, sometimes she gets the urge in the middle of the night. Something I made clear when we first married... if the urge hits, don't be afraid to speak up. I'm not a good mindreader.

[smoothy]

heres were i have to disagree,just because a guy is picking his hand over her doesnt mean hes upset with her,i can think of several other reasons this could be happening

Name them please... because as I guy this will be news to me. I'm surry, the hand is a poor substitute for a real woman to me.

[smoothy]

Okay...first off, insomnia and sleep apnea are two different things. Insomnia is the inability to obtain sufficient sleep, esp. when chronic; difficulty in falling or staying asleep; sleeplessness.... Sleep apnea is a temporary suspension of breathing, occurring in some newborns (infant apnea) and in some adults during sleep (sleep apnea).


Second...just because there is no ring, doesn't mean he can sleep with whoever he wishes. If they are in a serious relationship, then there should be nothing on the side for either party! A ring doesn't mean monogamy, a serious loving relationship does. (Regardless of minor problems within the relationship.)

#1... never said they were the same... I just named 2 sleep disorders, and yes I do know people that suffer form either of those.

#2... If you aren't engaged... (as in with an engagement ring), there is no implied requirement to be monogomous, many people not engaged date multiple people. Why would you expect faithfulness without getting engaged?

[JudyKayTee]

Maybe I'm the only woman in the World who finds it erotic to WATCH her husband masturbate? As long as I'm not left out, I have no problem.

In private or in a sneaky fashion - what I don't know doesn't hurt me. But, again, don't tell me you're tired when you've got something else going on in the bathroom before you get to the bedroom.

[smoothy]

Maybe I'm the only woman in the World who finds it erotic to WATCH her husband masturbate? As long as I'm not left out, I have no problem.

In private or in a sneaky fashion - what I don't know doesn't hurt me. But, again, don't tell me you're tired when you've got something else going on in the bathroom before you get to the bedroom.

Hey, anything that you enjoy together is fine by me... I just preffer a woman to the hand any day or any time.

[JudyKayTee]

I'm not saying it's a preference - I'm saying something a little out of the ordinary is always nice. And I'm not saying that he reached the finish line of the race alone.

[smoothy]

I'm not saying it's a preference - I'm saying something a little out of the ordinary is always nice. And I'm not saying that he reached the finish line of the race alone.

I'm a firm believer is whatever floats your boat as a maried couple is fine if you both enjoy it... even if it involves handcuffs and ice cubes.:eek:

[JudyKayTee]

I'm a firm believer is whatever floats your boat as a maried couple is fine if you both enjoy it....even if it involves handcuffs and ice cubes.:eek:

Were you looking in our window?

[smoothy]

Were you looking in our window?

Maybe, maybe not... I'm not talking... :D