[Sweetgirl10]

Ok not to be disgusting or anything but the last two times I seen my husband when he came home I gave him head. He was like oh **** so I know that had to be a good sign and then when he came home earlier today I gave him another one but I got more into and switched it up with different stuff and he was like damn baby what you been watching and when I sucked my fingers he looked so shock lol. So from a guy's point of view was that a sign that I was doing something right or wrong?

[jenniepepsi]

I don't think it's a sign that you did anything wrong. Maybe he just wasn't too sure about it. You could be asking HIM this question you know :P he would be able to give you a better idea of what it means ;) (im not saying you shouldn't have asked hon, don't worrie)

I would suggest you sit down and talk to him about it. Ask him what he was feeling and how it made him feel and ask if he liked it or not, and what he did like about it, what he didn't like, etc. you get the idea :P

Good luck hon.

[Sweetgirl10]

Lol yes. I like that idea. So I will just try to talk to him about it. I'm still new to this stuff so yea I'm a little embarrases about it

[jenniepepsi]

Its OK :) I learned the hard way too. It's a learning process. And learning to share your life with another person is one of the more difficult ones.

[zippit]

Yea you might have overwhelmed him.I don't see anything wrong here but when a girl does something way out of bounds it goes make a guy wonder what's up?
Where did this come from?
Instead of doing a sit down and talk were it could become more awkward
I would brush it off by saying something like
"i was just really into it"
Or something like that ,your style
By the way keep up the good work

[letmetellu]

lol yes. i like that idea. so i will just try to talk to him about it. im still new to this stuff so yea im a little embarrases about it

I know what it would have meant to me: It would mean that I married one hot gal and I love it.

Don't ever be embarrassed to discuss things of a sexual nature, it is one of the better conversations that you can have. I had a real good friend that he and his wife could not talk to each other about sex. Both wanted to make love but didn't know how to let the other one know either that or one could not pick up on the actions of the other.

Now to say what I think about your actions, if my wife did something that she had not done before I would assume that she had been reading a book, you'll never know how much I love those Harlequin Romance Novels, She reads between the lines.

[Sweetgirl10]

Yes indeed it is a hard process

[Sweetgirl10]

Lol okay zippit I will do that. I kind of thought the samet thing but I hope he doesn't think that way

[Sweetgirl10]

Thank you "letmetellyu" I liked your answer it made me smile a lot and gave a personal point of view

[smoothy]

Most definitely did the right thing from a guys perspective. As a man I always really, and I mean REALLY, liked a women that took initiative like that.

His shock might simply be from not expecting it... I think a good answer would have been, "well honey, I missed you and just wanted to do something I thought would be special for you".

Heck, any man that doesn't appreciate it is a man that doesn't deserve you.

[redhed35]

SWEETGIRL,that's a great idea,I'm going to give that a try!

It sounds as if he loved it,good for you for mixing things up!

[letmetellu]

Ok not to be disgusting or anything but the last two times i seen my husband when he came home i gave him head. He was like oh **** so i know that had to be a good sign and then when he came home earlier today i gave him another one but i got more into and switched it up with different stuff and he was like damn baby what u been watching and when i sucked my fingers he looked so shock lol. so from a guy's point of view was that a sign that i was doing something right or wrong?

You know it would help if we knew excatly what you did to switch things up, and also some of the other females might like to try it on their guys.