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    ifrah moh Posts: 6, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 30, 2009, 05:47 AM
    I don't know how to handle with my best friend (who seems to be in love with me)
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    I am a 15 year old girl living in sweden,here is myproblem a few months ago Imoved from africa to sweden Iwas in africa for 6yrs in those 6yrs I made an amazing friend,he is a guy actually and we have been talking to each other constantly ever since I moved,a few days ago we were talking about guys and BOOM from no where he says I am deeply in love with you and Icant let you go,I was speachless and then he said well... talk to me I hanged the phone on him and haven't talked to him since .what the hell do I do I mean I love him more than anything but not that way,I serously don't know what to do I mean he is my well... bff and I don't want to hurt him.I know your probarly thinking typical teenage love affair but these things they don't happen to a girl like me ,help me I need an answer as soon as possible.
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    Jun 30, 2009, 05:50 AM

    He's going to be hurt. That's something that he'll need to deal with. Unfortunately you can't just change the way you feel about someone. It's really hard for a relationship like this to work out, to be honest because he's going to feel tortured if he continues to spend time with you and you're feelings for each other aren't the same.
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    Jun 30, 2009, 07:52 AM

    ,I seriously don't know what to do I mean he is my well... bff and I don't want to hurt him.
    Be honest with your pen pal, as he was being honest with you.
    These things they don't happen to a girl like me
    It has now, so handle yourself with honesty, and some compassion for your friends feelings. He will be hurt, but you don't need to be cruel.
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