[Filthy_Gorgeous]

I apologize in advance for being wordy.

I fell in love for the first time a few summers ago, and after being extremely happy with that person, we decided that the age difference was inappropriate and we are still friends to this day. We both are in love with the other, and we both recognize this fact. However, over time these feelings have become much less dominant and we both now feel comfortable dating other people, while staying extremely close friends. (You could say we got the comfortably ever after) I began dating someone a few months ago who I thought I was in love with, and we were both extremely happy. However, after a few months, my ridiculously huge attraction to him dwindled, and we've begun to fight a lot. I'm not very sexually attracted to him anymore. Sometimes, this guy is my world, and other times, it's irritating to talk to him. I believe that if you're in love, you should not have eyes for anyone else, and recently, I've become very attracted to this one person in particular. I'm not sure what I should do; should I continue to love him, because love is about enduring, or should I leave my current significant other, because I'm not sure if I'll forever be happy?:confused:

[jmjoseph]

There are more options than just these two guys. Wait until when you don't have to settle. Or ask here. Good luck.

[I wish]

First of all, if you have so many doubts about your current boyfriend, then you should either try to work out your concerns with him or break up with him.

As for the new guy, you shouldn't even be considering whether he's a potential boyfriend until you sort things out with your current boyfriend.