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AKeagle · Sep 19, 2009, 01:07 PM

Never would have thought in a million years that the outcome would have turned into this. She has now took the plunge into something serious, which has nothing to stand on. It was her decision, but before anything was mended. Lust, not Love.

I know, I was not what she was looking for. I am not at the point in my life where I am ready to get married.

paxe · Sep 19, 2009, 09:05 PM

Some people cope with losses in different way. Me and you we get ourselves better, our exes do stupid things. My ex is getting drunk almost all the time, and once she was so drunk last week she vomited, took her top off and then tried to clean her mess and insulted everybody. Your ex married someone in less than 3 month. I believe that life will reward us and we won't suffer as they do, even though I hope that they get a better life than they have now.

AKeagle · Sep 20, 2009, 01:25 AM

Originally Posted by paxe

Some people cope with losses in different way. Me and you we get ourselves better, our exes do stupid things. My ex is getting drunk almost all the time, and once she was so drunk last week she vomited, took her top off and then tried to clean her mess and insulted everybody. Your ex married someone in less than 3 month. I believe that life will reward us and we wont suffer as they do, even though I hope that they get a better life than they have now.

Right now, the only thing I wish for is to wake up and feel better about my loses, for the pain to fade. (which has happened over the last three and some months since it happened)

I choose to cope with my problem silently. Besides here, I don't really talk to people about it. (just yesterday I told my my father the whole story) It is always a downer in any occasion, and I am trying to move up.

As for her decision. It seems the future only has one course.

paxe · Sep 20, 2009, 07:38 AM

It's more than understandable that you have pain. By now you should have realized that this pain does go away especially with NC and taking care of yourself. I would suggest talking to more people about it, it will help you out. Now she has chosen her path and you have chosen yours... Actually life does get better for us, much better than our exes.

In the end of the day, you have taken the right decision of moving on and loving yourself first.

AKeagle · Sep 22, 2009, 08:02 PM

Originally Posted by paxe

It's more than understandable that you have pain. By now you should have realized that this pain does go away especially with NC and taking care of yourself. I would suggest talking to more people about it, it will help you out. Now she has chosen her path and you have chosen yours... Actually life does get better for us, much better than our exes.

In the end of the day, you have taken the right decision of moving on and loving yourself first.

I finally broke the news to my parents, everything that I hide from them about this for the last month and some. I also talked to my close friends about it, though like some of you said, "well you dodged that bullet", but also said "It will never last, I give it 6 months max"

The last chapter has been written of this. The End

Now time to start a new book.

Thank you all for the help you have given me

paxe · Sep 23, 2009, 06:32 AM

Good luck man!

Romefalls19 · Sep 23, 2009, 06:35 AM

Good luck and god speed