[Billy40]

I've known this friend for about a year. She had many problems with her jealous and controlling boyfriend. During those difficult times I'd support her as much I could. As the matter fact we became very closse to each other, until I realize that I had fallen in love with her. As far as I am concern, she's still with the same boyfriend. Since I found out that they got back, we have not spoken to each other. I still love her very much, but I don't want to be in the middle of her relationship. Can someone tell me if I am doing the right thing?

[N0help4u]

Yes you are doing the right thing. You don't want to be accused of breaking them up or meddling. She knows you are there if she ever wants/needs a friend.

[mary88]

Yea u are

[Gemini54]

Yep!

Don't touch this one - he's jealous and controlling and you don't want to get in the middle of it. Best not to contact her - she's made her choice.

Anyway, there are lots of girls out there who will appreciate a nice guy like you.

[ajGambino]

Stay away Billy, you're doing the right thing. Those feelings will fade in time, keep up the good work buddy.