Wow! Perhaps you are painting too rosey a picture here. My husbands deceased wife's mother cried at our wedding, making a scene and did not congratulate us in line after the marriage. I have opened my home, my arms and my heart to this deceased wife's family, including her daughter that is not my husband's and all the aunts, uncles, etc. What I have received in return is not anything like you have described. Set boundaries. Things continue to get worse for me and although my husband has been fairly supportive, the interference, disrespect and inconsiderate behavior is unbearable. I am raising my step daughter as my own and have a son. My son is treated like a second class citizen and my step daughters grandmother has twice lied to me and allowed her older half sister to take her without permission. This half sister just dropped out of college, totalled her car, quite the only part-time job she has ever had, and is modeling in garages, into porn and has a new boyfried every week. My step daughter is ten! I do not want her subjected to pervs, porn, drugs or any of her half sister's inappropriate behavior. In my attempt to reach out, I am being treated like a door mat.
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