OK... you seem like your old enough to make your own decision to have sex or not right? Like you don't live with your parents... you left the house... well,. either way... not only me, but quite a few people would suggest waiting until marrigae... well I don't know about any body else acutally but that is standards I seem to follow...
Anyhoo, maybe its because the relationship is not working out too well enough... sex can sometimes(not all of the time but majority) if your not old enough to handle it emotionally and physically it can ruin a relatioship. Don't ask how but it can, first you do it then that's the only thing you will want to do or vise versa and next thing you know you just took every thing out of that relationship and replaced it with sex and we all know we can't place a relationship(that we would want to last at least) on sex...
Give it time and don't stay too distnat but don't be all up onto him like obsessed, he will get freaked out... do your best to be on the lie and if he doesn't contribute his share into then maybe its just not right for you you know?
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