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    May 24, 2009, 07:41 AM
    12 years old boy
    Dear all

    I really need help, I found out that my 12 year boy is having sex with a 10 years old girl from school and I am really worried that her father will find out?
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    May 24, 2009, 08:05 AM

    What type of help are you seeking? Counselling for your son? Legal help in the event he is arrested for statutory rape?

    No one here can keep her father from finding out and you need to look at the possible consequences if he does.
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    May 24, 2009, 08:52 AM

    Have you talked with your son about sex? Of couse her parents are going find out and would be upset.

    They are having sex too young. At twelve and ten, OMG.

    How did you found out they had sex? Did you hear from your son?

    The question is what are you doing about this situation?
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    May 24, 2009, 09:25 AM

    Your only concern is what if the father finds out?

    You should be concerned that your son is so precocious sexually for his age as he is clearly not mature enough to be engaging in this type of activity.

    You need to sit down and have a serious talk with your son about boundaries.Then you need to forbid him from ever doing this again.He can be charged with rape,he needs to know the consequences of his behavior.

    Doing nothing is just like giving them a green light to continue.You need to get all the facts and act accordingly.
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