[J_9]

Just hang up the phone and never talk to them again. They are cruel. Remember... what comes around goes around. They will get theirs!

[Romefalls19]

Now, on one hand. I do find this funny(if it happened on TV) but this is not TV, it's real life with real feelings involved.

Drop them both, both emotional and physically. I don't normally condone hitting, but in this instance, I wouldn't hold it against your character if you did, heck I want to for what they did.

[KikiGirl13]

Leave them alone because this is fishy and who knows how many females they did this to.

Why do this to someone?

I'm the seconded. Only second because I'm his (their) second girlfriend.

[J_9]

I'm the seconded. Only second because I'm his (their) second girlfriend.

You can't be THEIR girlfriend. Have you asked your mother about this situation? What advice does she give?

[KikiGirl13]

Now, on one hand. I do find this funny(if it happened on TV) but this is not TV, it's real life with real feelings involved.

Drop them both, both emotional and physically. I don't normally condone hitting, but in this instance, I wouldn't hold it against your character if you did, heck I want to for what they did.

It's real life. Real life sucks. If I were on TV, and this were a show, you could laugh. It seems funny, but it isn't. We (all three of us?) went out to places, I went over (but they made sure that there was only one of them at home. One person per place, so I wouldn't notice) to their house, and... ended up... doing something's... Well... rather one of them pressured me into it. So yeah, I have feelings for him (them?).

I'm trying to drop them, but I still love them (?). It's hard to break up with someone, even if they are dumbass liars.

[KikiGirl13]

You can't be THEIR girlfriend. Have you asked your mother about this situation? What advice does she give?

My mother hates him (them?) all because he's (they're?) Japanese ( does that have to do with it?) and I'm Chinese (World War II?).

[I wish]

I'm trying to drop them, but I still love them (?). It's hard to break up with someone, even if they are dumbass liars.

What? "dumbass liars" makes it easier to break up with them...

Have more self-respect. Have more self-esteem. You don't deserve to be treated this way.

[liz28]

Leave them both alone and move on. This won't be their last time pulling a stunt like this.

It sounds like they like games.
They both dated you without telling you. This is a major violation.

Then to top it out they want you to choose a winner. Then I bet whoever you choice will end up dumping you. Then their move on to their next victim. They are playing a dangerous game.

Move on and don't look back.

[KikiGirl13]

What? "dumbass liars" makes it easier to break up with them...

Have more self-respect. Have more self-esteem. You don't deserve to be treated this way.

Doubt it... When peolple get pissed, they tend to even maim the one they love the most. It's just the way people are.

I'm seeing them BOTH on Monday. I guess I dumping one or both of them. Find someone new. Some who'd care.

[Romefalls19]

What, what


So you are still considering dating one of them?

Please tell me why?

[I wish]

Doubt it.... When peolple get pissed, they tend to even maim the one they love the most. It's just the way people are.

I'm seeing them BOTH on Monday. I guess I dumping one or both of them. Find someone new. Some who'd care.

The rest of your post contradicts the last two lines. How can you love either of them? You don't even know who is who? How do you love someone that you don't know? Do you even know what's their names? How do you dump one but not the other? How can you possibibly know who you are in love with? You couldn't even tell them apart...

Anyway... how about you focus on your last two sentences... "Find someone new" and "Some who'd care"

[liz28]

Doubt it.... When peolple get pissed, they tend to even maim the one they love the most. It's just the way people are.

I'm seeing them BOTH on Monday. I guess I dumping one or both of them. Find someone new. Some who'd care.

Speak for yourself because if it was me I would have left after I gave they both a piece of my mind. They are going do this to wrong person and end up getting seriously beat up.

Love? When did love enter the picture? You don't even know who you love because you don't know either one of them, please.


Dump them both! You don't know either one of them because they both played you. Don't you get it?

[Homegirl 50]

I'm the seconded. Only second because I'm his (their) second girlfriend.

How do you know that is true?
Dump them both. How in the world could you ever trust either one again, and they have the nerve to tell you to choose. Choose to walk away from both of the creeps.

[mpk026]

Doubt it.... When peolple get pissed, they tend to even maim the one they love the most. It's just the way people are.

I'm seeing them BOTH on Monday. I guess I dumping one or both of them. Find someone new. Some who'd care.

It seems like they are enjoying u,actually they plan in advance the date so that they can make sure one of them is not at home or wherever you go, get out of this as soon as possible its better for your future also.find a guy who cares about u

[Izzyy]

He might be waiting until after your birthday to say he's dating your friend?

[N0help4u]

Gee I thought you only forgot birth day dates when you got to be my age.

Since he said wait until after your birthday I would say he is planning a surprise for you.
If he is planning to break up with you then I would really tell him off for putting you through this and not telling you before your birthday. But I wouldn't assume anything and wait and see.

[J_9]

How old are you?

[I wish]

She's been dating a twin.

[J_9]

artlady agrees: Are you shaking you head in disbelief? I can't stop mine!

This is why the bunny bangs it's head. LOL

[I wish]

Same person who doesn't know her own birthday.