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    May 12, 2009, 03:40 PM
    I want her to love me ask much as I love her.
    I'm a very blunt guy I tell you how it is and how I feel Idon't care what you think but I'm in a relationship and it's gotten really hard because I love her more then anything and I do everything for her but I love her more then what she loves me and I really want to know how can I get her to love me as much?
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    May 12, 2009, 04:21 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by BeBo123 View Post
    I'm a very blunt guy I tell you how it is and how I feel I don't care what you think but I'm in a relationship and it's gotten really hard because I love her more then anything and I do everything for her but I love her more then what she loves me and I really want to know how can I get her to love me as much?

    You don't care what we think? What the F are you on here for then?

    Since you're a 'very blunt guy', let me lay this down for you and tell it, like it is. You cannot make someone love you, much less get her to love you just as much as you do her. It seems she's not into you, as much as you're into her. All you can do now is stay in an unfair relationship and deal with it, or move on.
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    May 12, 2009, 05:12 PM

    You can't force her to love you as much or make her, its her feelings not yours. You can only show her how much you love her and hope she returns it.

    I have come to realize, when someone say they will do anything for someone, its an unhealthy relationship. A relationship should be 2 people sharing a life together and not make each other everything.

    And like what aj said, if you don't care what we think than why are you asking us? We try to help people here and we are not here to judge people and it would be appreciated if you lay off the attitude.
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    May 12, 2009, 05:50 PM

    You can't make someone Love you more , it either happens or it doesn't. Trying to control how someone feels about you is futile and will just push them away.

    Relationships are meant to be 50/50 , sorry to be blunt but if yours isn't then you either work together to make that happen. Or you leave.
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    May 12, 2009, 06:26 PM

    Since your so blunt why didn't you just tell her to love you as much as you love her? I wonder how this would fly with her? Hmmm

    I don't think your really looking for advice because if so it would be nothing you want to hear.
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