Originally Posted by
kizia
[QUOTE Go to therapy and work through what happened to you so you don't become a predator.
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Magan2345 let me tell you this, not everyone can afford therapy but I worked though my problems all I ask is if it would really could happen to me cause I would thinking how its
Just to hold that child and see how it develop. I don't just think about doing it to children but to older females in there 50's and above its weird but I never did it before just thought
About it
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The thing about our thoughts or fantasies is that they often become less exciting over time and the need to actually experience them can lead to the unwanted behavior.
You have not worked through your problems if you are still questioning your potential to be a pedophile.
Sexual abuse is a serious crime and you were a victim.People do not usually work these things out without some outside guidance.
I am giving you a link for free mental health services in the U.S.. if you are in another country,let me know and I will try to find something for you where you live.
The link says substance abuse as well,but they cover all aspects of mental health.
Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) Website