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nasima · May 5, 2009, 10:21 PM

Hello
My name is Anna I had a boyfriend for 2 years, we had a plan to get engage but never happened and lately ha asked for a breakup texting me.He doesn't t think about marriage anymore and he doesn't t want waist my time neither his. I did accept his decision but I do not want to talk to him anymore he wanted me as a friend but that s not what I wanted.
I just wanted him back, we still talk when its necessary

chrisj1234 · May 5, 2009, 10:32 PM

nasima, if you could please give us some more details? What's your/his age? Any background info about your relationship would also help, what was it you discussed about, etc

Romefalls19 · May 6, 2009, 05:14 AM

Go no contact, the wound will remain fresh for however long you continue to talk to him. Read the stickies at the top and take the time to let the emotional dust settle

joshdom · May 6, 2009, 05:22 AM

Hey, just give him and yourself time. Don't talk to him until you can talk to him as a friend. If he wants to be friends but you don't there is nothing much you can do. Just let yourself know you won't be together again. If you then become friends and anything happens you can be happy. I know it is hard because I just split up with my gfd after 4 years, but there really isn't much else you can do.

talaniman · May 6, 2009, 07:04 AM

Stop holding on to him, let him go, and heal.

shazamataz · May 6, 2009, 08:47 AM

Exactly taliniman.

I wouldn't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me.

liz28 · May 6, 2009, 10:08 AM

If you don't want to be friends with him then don't. There is no rule stating you must be friends with an ex.

He decided he didn't want to be you but he can't decide for you to remain friends with him. That isn't his choice.

I wish · May 6, 2009, 10:20 AM

It takes two people to make a relationship work. If he doesn't feel the same way anymore, then you have to accept his decision.

Since you don't want to be "only" friends, then it's time to block him out of your life so that you can move on. Otherwise, you will keep feeling the pain when you talk to him.

SAB123 · May 6, 2009, 01:53 PM

I would move on, and cut all communication off with him. And it's good you don't want to be friends with him. Being friends with an ex will only delay your healing process and keep you confused and living on false hope the two of you will get back together. Trust me this don't work. Plus why would you want to get back together with a person who doesn't want to be with you anyway?