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Hi,I have a girlfriend who I really love.weve been together for 6 months,just one problem we've been fighting alt but even after the fights we still have the same feeling of love funny enough the fights even bring us closer together.one problem is that she's always lying to me,when I asked her she's like she does that because she was just covering up and didn't want to hurt me,other thing is that just of her friends she teats me so bad,ignores me never wants to be next to me.question is does she really love me?

[Mayank Verma]

She loves you but she does not want to mix love life and others

[talaniman]

How old are you and can you do better with the spelling so your post is understandable?

[I wish]

The two of you have a poor communication system. You really need to talk things about.

The reason she's probably having to lie to you is because she doesn't think you can understand her. If you really love her and want to make this work, then stop arguing. Sit your butt down, tape your mouth shut and LISTEN to her. Tell her that you want to know what's on her mind and let her express herself.

When she's done, then say what you think.

You should focus on having "discussions". It's not a debating tournament, you want to work out the issues, not win the argument.

[Romefalls19]

The key to a relationship, communication.

The bigger, more important key, is listening

Anyone can talk, it's take a mature person to listen to another