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    nick r Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 22, 2006, 08:47 PM
    Delayed ejaculation
    My girlfriend is getting upset because sex is taking so long. It takes me around 15 minutes to ejaculate. The shortest time has been 5 minutes. We can't have a quickie and I was just wondering is this normal and is there anything that I can do do make sex more quick at times. Most of the time it is OK but it is getting her frustrated.
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    Sep 22, 2006, 08:51 PM
    Sounds to me more like premature ejaculation and you will get over it as time goes by.
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    Sep 22, 2006, 09:07 PM
    No, I don't think it is premature. Apparently her last boyfriend could *** really quick or last really long. As I want sex every day a bit it would be good to have a quickie in the morning. A quickie though last anywhere from 15 to 30 minutes. Is there something to do with the prostate. Also when I come, it just blobs out and doesn/t shoot a long way. I am 36.
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    Sep 22, 2006, 10:24 PM
    You should be proud of yourself. Lots of men are lucky if they last a couple of minutes. Give yourself a pat on the back and tell your girlfriend that she is lucky that it does last long. Most women want this? It is hard when partners had someone to compare too. Everybody is different.


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    Sep 22, 2006, 10:33 PM
    If your girlfriend is pi$$Ed that it takes 15 min to get you to ejac. She's lazy.

    You have got to be kidding me.

    Men generally have to hold back to allow time for the woman to build up to climax. And she's angry that you take a little longer??

    This is BS.

    Best case scenario - lets say my partner sneaks into my bathroom and intends to "surprise" me as I come out of the shower. And lets say its all about satisfying me. It might take that long. If I was still the pimply 15 year old on the school bus who would damn near ejac. Every time I say a glimpse of a girls thigh, well the delay might be shorter. But I'm not. It takes a little work to get things moving and for me to get lost in the moment.

    She is being absurd.

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with you.

    The last girl I dated before my wife I could get off damn near 99% of the time, within 20 min of engaging intercourse. Just the way she was "wired". My wife, I can probably satisfy her maybe 30% of the time... and she's not pi$$ed about it. She knows that she's just hard to get to climax.

    So I think your girlfriend is being a snot. Do you tell her that she's not as tight or as big chested or as active as your HS sweetheart or your first? Of course not. That's rude and disrespectful.

    If she's grumpy about your needing 15 min (damn near a commercial break) to get it done, she is CLUELESS!!

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