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hhaannaahh · May 2, 2009, 08:18 AM

Going to take it further with the person I like
He is a lot more experienced than me
Will he find this a problem
I feel more self conscious now lol :/
X

I wish · May 2, 2009, 08:19 AM

Don't do anything that you are uncomfortable with. Even if he is more experience, you should go at your own pace. Don't feel obliged to speed it up just because of his experience.

hhaannaahh · May 2, 2009, 08:23 AM

I am wanting to am ready, its just I don't know if he would think differently knowing exactly how inexperienced
I haven't put it quite so bluntly to him

redhed35 · May 2, 2009, 08:24 AM

Depending on how old you are and how confident you are about your body, the first time can be amazing.
Make sure you have the sex talk before hand,and what kind of protection you both want.
Its too late talking about it after the deed!

I wish · May 2, 2009, 08:25 AM

We can't tell you what to do, but we can suggest that you be careful and proceed with caution.

hhaannaahh · May 2, 2009, 08:27 AM

Haha
I'm nearly 19
I'm not too self conscious about my body
He's seen it before anyway tbh
Its just if use think it would bother him?
I don't think it would
Just want some opinions aha

talaniman · May 2, 2009, 08:34 AM

How long have you been together? When two people care about each other it won't matter, but if you're a virgin, better be sure that's what you want. That's why I asked how long you have been together, as some guys just want what a young guy wants, with no mind as to what comes later. No do they have any future plans, but I assume this is a committed relationship, with some extensive communications going on between you.

redhed35 · May 2, 2009, 08:36 AM

You'll be fine.. use protection.. dont do anything your not comfortable with,and make sure you have the TALK!
That way he will know to take it slowly and he will more then likely have more regard for you for the fact that your less experiened,be open and honest,be yourself,be safe,and you won't go too far wrong.

hhaannaahh · May 2, 2009, 08:38 AM

That's what I was planning
To just be safe and also admit I don't know much and let him deal with it
?

redhed35 · May 2, 2009, 08:50 AM

That's a plan.
If he doesn't like it.. tough.
Look after you,if he cares about you,he won't mind at all.

hhaannaahh · May 2, 2009, 08:51 AM

Thanks for the advice :)

chuff · May 2, 2009, 10:37 AM

Originally Posted by hhaannaahh

goin to take it further with the person i like
he is a lot more experienced than me
will he find this a problem

NO. In fact he'll be thrilled you haven't been with 1000 different guys, while pretending to be some angel.

hhaannaahh · May 2, 2009, 10:41 AM

Wheyy :)
So you don't reckon it'll change how he thinks or anything?
:)
Thanks for the opinions anyway dudes
Xx

chuff · May 2, 2009, 10:44 AM

I'd be thinking, "learning with her will be fun" and more bluntly "she's not a slut, I've got a winner."

hhaannaahh · May 2, 2009, 10:46 AM

aww thanks =]

chuff · May 2, 2009, 10:53 AM

Not a problem. It was my pleasure to not call you a slut.

hhaannaahh · May 2, 2009, 11:05 AM

Haha