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mjandjc · May 1, 2009, 05:45 PM

I have a lad who is 16 and keeps looking at not very good pic of girls and porn on the net... I know he is at that age. But last year my son had some porn on his phone when he was 15 and my 8year old daughters saw it... but what I did not know that my daughter had memntioned somethink to her teacher what she had saw on her brothers phone.. and a week laster I has social service wanting to come to my house to see if my daughter was OK after the teacher was saying that he thought that she was getting abused.. as you can imagine I was horrified!! So I had very strong words with my some and told him how much trouble he had caused by having picture on his phone and I asked him notg to do it again.. BUT he has gone and done the same thing again I asked ti use his phone and he had porn on there again.. thank god this time my little girls did not see it this time.. there is no talking any sense into him it seams to go in one ear and the oput of the other.. I don't really want to see that kind of filth in my home anyway.. nor do I want my girls to see it.. any reply would be very gratefull I am at the end of my teather with him I really don't know what to do he keeps hidding the stuff he has been on on the internet or deleting it before I have had a chance to see what he has been on.. if anyone can help that would be fantastic.. one very distraught mother.

Wondergirl · May 1, 2009, 05:50 PM

Take away his cell phone. Control his computer use. Would that help?

sabrewolfe · May 1, 2009, 05:53 PM

Set the content filters on his computer and take away the cell phone! What do kids need them for anyway? If you need to, take away his computer. Haven't you thought of any of this yet? Hello!

mjandjc · May 1, 2009, 05:55 PM

Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Take away his cell phone. Control his computer use. Would that help?

I have he dose not have a phone anymore I have the laptop computor but he hates it when I say he cannot go on it unless I am in the room but that still dose not stop him from trying to get on to these site..

sabrewolfe · May 1, 2009, 05:57 PM

Originally Posted by mjandjc

I have he dose not have a phone anymore i have the laptop computor but he hates it when i say he cannot go on it unless i am in the room but that still dose not stop him from trying to get on to these site..

So what if he hates it, I hated eating broccoli.
Take away the laptop mom!

mjandjc · May 1, 2009, 05:58 PM

Originally Posted by sabrewolfe

Set the content filters on his computer and take away the cell phone! What do kids need them for anyway? If you need to, take away his computer. Haven't you thought of any of this yet? Hello!

I am not stupid so doont be a fool with me!! But it don't stop him from trying.. some people we are not all stupid

sabrewolfe · May 1, 2009, 05:59 PM

Originally Posted by mjandjc

I am not stupid so doont be a fool with me!!!! but it dont stop him from trying.. some people we are not all stupid

Then why are you asking foolish questions if you already know the answers?

Wondergirl · May 1, 2009, 05:59 PM

Originally Posted by mjandjc

I am not stupid so doont be a fool with me!!!! but it dont stop him from trying.. some people we are not all stupid

If he has no phone and no computer, how can he try?

mjandjc · May 1, 2009, 06:00 PM

Originally Posted by sabrewolfe

So what if he hates it, I hated eating broccoli.
Take away the laptop mom!

he still tries to get on it...

Krazi · May 1, 2009, 06:00 PM

Computers come with parental control and as for his cellphone why does he have internet on it?
Contact the cell provider and have them take off any and all service other than the ability to call.
If he insist on such activity take away his phone and password the computer.

Boys will be boys but he needs to understand
His curiosity almost caused a serious issue.

Either respect your wishes or take it all away.

Wondergirl · May 1, 2009, 06:01 PM

Lock it up.

mjandjc · May 1, 2009, 06:01 PM

Originally Posted by Wondergirl

If he has no phone and no computer, how can he try?

When I am out he tries to get on the laptop

Wondergirl · May 1, 2009, 06:02 PM

Originally Posted by mjandjc

when i am out he tries to get on the laptop

Protect it with a password.

sabrewolfe · May 1, 2009, 06:03 PM

Originally Posted by mjandjc

he still tries to get on it...

Well then take it away totally. What is so hard about that?

Krazi · May 1, 2009, 06:08 PM

Can't we just get along...
Q&A no judging, we are a great fun site lets not tarnish that.

sabrewolfe · May 1, 2009, 06:11 PM

Originally Posted by Krazi

cant we just get along......
Q&A no judging, we are a great fun site lets not tarnish that.

What? She asked for an answer, she's getting one. Nothing off track at all.

Krazi · May 1, 2009, 06:23 PM

No not off track, but comments have been supplied from both sides causing this thread to escalate into something other than a helpful answer to the OP.

sabrewolfe · May 1, 2009, 06:37 PM

Originally Posted by Krazi

no not off track, but comments have been supplied from both sides causing this thread to escalate into something other than a helpful answer to the OP.

I don't see it getting more helpful than that bro. Didn't I sugar coat it enough? She knows what to do, but lacks the will to act. We're talking about kids for Christ sake.

Krazi · May 1, 2009, 06:45 PM

Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Lock it up.

Lmao!!

Sorry, I miss understood when I seen this post by Wondergirl.
After reading a post by you and OP I felt things getting warm, then I saw "lock it up"
I thought holy crap.

Shutting up now. [ my bad]

Wondergirl · May 1, 2009, 07:04 PM

Originally Posted by Krazi

lmao!!!

Lock up the computer.