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    Pokerface5 Posts: 85, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 29, 2009, 03:42 PM
    My best friend
    Okay so one weekend I went out of town with a bunch of friends. We had a great time and told each other some personal stufff. Well my best friend said one thing that she didn't want anyone to tell. It wasn't major... I mean it wasn't life threatening but I knew it was important to her so I didn't say a word. Well at work me and another one of my friends who went on the trip also and had heard the secret were talking about it. I made a joke about it and one of my best friend who works with us overheard what I said and went and told my the best friend (that told the secret)what she heard. So after class my friend thought that I went around and told people. I didn't and even though I explained it to her and she said she forgives me I highly doubt it because she has been cold all week. What do I do.

    Also; today she said she missed talking to me and she loved me (No HOMO) but she still seems angry. What to do?
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    Apr 29, 2009, 08:05 PM

    You learn a lesson.

    When someone tells you a secret, you don't talk about it, even as a joke.

    As far as your friend you just have to give her space for awhile and let her choose to forgive you if she wants.
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    Apr 29, 2009, 08:11 PM

    You broke your friend's trust. You're going to have to regain her trust, but give her time. You can't expect her to forgive you overnight.

    Hopefully you learned your lesson.
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    Apr 29, 2009, 08:58 PM

    Loose lips sink ships unfortunately.

    Hopefully she forgives you and you can still be friends , and hopefully you learnt something from this.
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    Apr 29, 2009, 09:01 PM
    Sorry, you screwed up. Depending on the depth of the secret you may have lost a friend.

    I guess we all learn from our mistakes. Hope you learn from this one.
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    May 1, 2009, 11:38 AM

    Thanks guys for your help... Were friends again... she forgave me and I learned my lesson :)

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