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    Crazzyfroggy12 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    Apr 26, 2009, 11:22 PM
    11 year old boy with a 16 year old girl
    OK so...

    I don't know why but little boys are always atracted to my friend Cheli

    Its weird and well she is 16

    She usually dated like from 13 to 18 year old guys

    To me its was sort of OK

    But now she is asking me if she should do something about this 11 year old

    I was like what the heck!

    I don't really think this is OK... since he is so small

    But she sais she doesn't want to have sex or do anything with him

    She just likes his company but

    I mean his older brother is her age... I don't think he would like her wit his little bro at all

    But I don't know... some people think its OK..

    Just wanted another opinion from an outside person
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    mudweiser Posts: 2,750, Reputation: 707
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    #2

    Apr 26, 2009, 11:25 PM

    That is wrong. She is 16 that's a 5 years difference. That is sick. Your friend really needs help.

    Question: where are the parents in all of this?

    Sarah
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    Crazzyfroggy12 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 26, 2009, 11:35 PM
    well Mudweiser

    I don't think the parents notice much what's going on

    they have the older boy that is her age

    so they think she is at their house because she likes the older guy

    and it seems they like her

    so she is always at their house playing video games

    but am pretty sure they would totally kick her out of their house if they found out

    lol am not so good at this thing XD

    but yea I think I replied to you mudwiser just not sure =/

    don't worry I will get the hang of this... :confused:
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    lighterrr Posts: 1,415, Reputation: 72
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    Apr 26, 2009, 11:51 PM

    Well its possible that she just thinks the little guy is pretty. You also said that they only hang out and play video games, well I don't see the harm in that. Now my only question is are the parents always around when she comes tot eh house.
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    Apr 27, 2009, 12:23 AM
    Well I wouldn't think so

    But the other 2 brothers the 15 year old guy and another small one are always there

    So I don't think anything happens other than video games
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    Apr 27, 2009, 02:34 AM

    This is ridiculous
    You need to tell your friend to stop being silly and to tell the boy that it cannot happen.
    Number one it is sick and she is practically a woman. He has probably just started puberty. They cannot date. Its wrong.
    She should date boys her own age or a little older. Its just silly.
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    I wish Posts: 5,296, Reputation: 2030
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    #7

    Apr 27, 2009, 07:32 AM

    I can't even picture this.

    It's borderline pedophile.

    Tell your friend to stay away before she gets in trouble.
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    Apr 27, 2009, 07:35 AM

    Just like a guy could get in legal problems behind this so can your friend.

    He is underage for her age and she needs to find someone her own age.

    She doesn't have to have sex with him to get in trouble. Kissing, some touching,can land her in trouble.

    But I guess she doesn't mind.
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    Apr 29, 2009, 12:37 PM

    I'm not sure what to think, I mean so girls go after younger guys. But why are they all after her. I mean it is wrong she should stay with her own age!

    Dawn
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    Apr 29, 2009, 01:01 PM

    If I found out my 11 year old sister was seeing a 16 year old guy... I'd be livid. Its beyond sick.
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    Apr 30, 2009, 06:09 AM

    The implications for that poor boy when he is older is not going to be pretty.

    Your friend needs professional help.
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    Apr 30, 2009, 06:16 AM

    She is old enough to be his babysitter!
    I would not want her watching my kid!

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