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    Apr 7, 2009, 02:28 PM
    Can anyone stop me from self harming?
    Hi I'm 12 and I want to know how to stop self harming myself I just want to stop but I can't because of pain that I let owt though it so please can some one advise me how to stop?
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    Apr 7, 2009, 02:33 PM

    Talk to your mom or a teacher about it and they will find someone for you to vent to.
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    Apr 7, 2009, 02:36 PM

    But I'm too scared to tell a teacher and evn worst my mum
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    Apr 7, 2009, 02:38 PM

    Talk to a school counselor.

    This isn't anything to be ashamed of and you won't be able to handle this situation alone and the advice here will not be enough.

    School counselors are trained for these types of situations, you will not find judgement, you will find assistance.
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    Apr 7, 2009, 02:42 PM

    We don't have one we only have learning mentors
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    Apr 7, 2009, 02:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by mandii_ere View Post
    we don't have one we only have learning mentors
    Is there a friend's mom or a teacher you like a lot and get on well with?
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    Apr 7, 2009, 02:47 PM

    You have to choose to talk to someone.

    You have to figure out who in your life you trust the most.
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    Apr 7, 2009, 02:48 PM

    Urm not really because I don't want to tell any 1 hu nos me because they might tell my mum and I don't want her to find out
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    Apr 7, 2009, 02:49 PM

    Well I trust my learning mentor and school nurse
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    Apr 7, 2009, 02:55 PM

    But I've been thinking maybe I should visit a psychiatrist
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    Apr 7, 2009, 02:57 PM
    If your in Canada call: 1800 668 6868

    Welcome to Kids Help Phone

    If your in Australia call: 1800 55 1800
    http://www.kidshelp.com.au/home_KHL.aspx?s=6

    If your in the USA call: 1-800-784-2433 OR 1-800-DONTCUT OR 1-800-999-9999 OR 1-800-400-0900

    If your in the UK call: 0800 11 11
    http://www.childline.org.uk/Pages/default.aspx

    MRS.S
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    Apr 7, 2009, 02:59 PM

    I'm in southport in england
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    Apr 7, 2009, 03:00 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by mandii_ere View Post
    urm not realy coz i dont wanna tell any 1 hu nos me coz they might tell my mum and i dont want her to find out
    Why not? (She has never seen any cuts or scars on you?)
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    Apr 7, 2009, 03:15 PM
    There is a Childline Helpline

    0800 1111

    24 hours Toll Free

    ChildLine is the UK's free national helpline for children and young people in trouble or danger.
    Children and young people can call us on 0800 1111 to talk about any problem. Our counselors are always here to help you sort it out.

    If you need help, if you want to talk to someone, call ChildLine, it's free.

    MRS.S
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    Apr 7, 2009, 03:19 PM
    Does any one know the number for the kids help line in england?
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    Apr 7, 2009, 03:20 PM
    No she isn't
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    Apr 7, 2009, 03:21 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by mandii_ere View Post
    does any one know the number for the kids help line in england?
    If it's not the number I gave you - you can always Google it or look in your phone book or call the operator.

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    Apr 7, 2009, 03:22 PM

    Ty
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    Apr 7, 2009, 03:24 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Why not? (She has never seen any cuts or scars on you?)



    No my mum has never seen any cuts or scars on me she has suspected but never acctualy seen them
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    Apr 7, 2009, 03:30 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by mandii_ere View Post
    no my mum has never seen any cuts or scars on me she has suspected but never acctualy seen them
    Make that call and let us know what happened.
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