[shanny101]

OK, me, my best male friend, and my best female friend hang out all the time! But my male friend likes the female friend.(he liked her first). But I also kind of like this girl too, and another girl, (EX: her name is x). But x can only date till she's 16!! ( I'm 13 ). But I already asked x out, but I hear that she still sort of likes me! And my female friend already asked her out way before we were best friends. So should I wait for x, or go for my best female friend and totally this my other male friend?! HELP!! 1

[mudweiser]

Well first you need to slow down. If this seems complicated to you then you really don't know what your in for when it comes to relationships. You are after all only 13. Overtime you will mature and grow [I say this with crossed fingers because not all people "grow" up]

Try being friends with her first, and go out with a group of friends to places like: the movies, youth group [if your into that], the mall, to each others' homes for a bonfire, etc.-- after all that is what you basically do when you date and I don't see anything wrong with doing that.


I can see why they would want to keep the actual dating to a side, because well we adults would like for our youngsters to hold out on the physical part as much possible.

MRS.S