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    #21

    Mar 28, 2009, 06:56 PM

    I can't stand it, too painful.
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    #22

    Mar 28, 2009, 07:05 PM

    My first sexual experience was with anal sex. My belief was that anal sex and oral sex meant "still a virgin" which is technically, in my little world, true! ;)

    I enjoy anal sex, but do have to say, lots of lube others it will be painful. Also, you have to trust your partner and be completely relaxed with that person.

    There are some major hot spots in the rectum. There are a lot of people out there who don't know what they are missing.

    TMI? ;)
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    #23

    Mar 28, 2009, 07:06 PM

    I'm too afraid of pooping to relax enough for anal sex... TMI!
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    #24

    Mar 28, 2009, 07:08 PM

    Well, I've always wanted to try anal and so does my hubby, but there is something that always holds me back.
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    #25

    Mar 28, 2009, 07:09 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by ChihuahuaMomma View Post
    I'm too afraid of pooping to relax enough for anal sex....TMI!!
    And that's pretty much what holds me back. XD
    I don't think I want to do that while having sex.
    That's the last thing I want to worry about while being pleasured.
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    #26

    Mar 28, 2009, 07:15 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jennifer1010 View Post
    and that's pretty much what holds me back. xD
    I don't think I wanna do that while having sex.
    That's the last thing I wanna worry about while being pleasured.
    I've been having and enjoying anal sex since I was 14 (kids, I don't recommend this, please don't do it, wait, 14 is way too young) and I have never had a bowel movement during anal sex.

    Think about it, the whole act of anal sex kind of negates having a bowel movement.

    If you really are worried about that (unlikely it would happen, in fact, I'd say impossible) then fast first.

    Many people think anal sex is taboo, or it hurts or it's bad for you, if it's done correctly then all of those myths are false.

    Really, lots of lube, relax and enjoy! You'll be glad you did.

    Wow, am I advertising anal sex on AMHD? Mods, don't kill me. ;)
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    #27

    Mar 28, 2009, 07:24 PM

    LOL. I've always wanted to try, but all attempts have been too painful to continue. We used plenty of lube. What does "if its done right" mean?
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    #28

    Mar 28, 2009, 07:37 PM

    If it's done right means that you have to be extremely relaxed, willing to experience it. If you are nervous your body will not co-operate and you can hurt yourself or your partner.

    Lube is a must, but so is relaxation, otherwise it won't work.
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    #29

    Mar 28, 2009, 07:42 PM

    Here's a site I found, read the 5 top tips section, it's accurate. Haven't read the rest, can't say if it is or isn't accurate so reader beware.

    Anal Sex Yes: Having Good, Clean, Safe Anal Fun
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    #30

    Mar 28, 2009, 07:46 PM

    Thanks Alty
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    #31

    Mar 29, 2009, 09:59 AM

    Take a poop 2 hours before and the garage will be empty.
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    #32

    Mar 29, 2009, 10:44 AM

    I have to be in a really hot mood but we do occasionally.I like it but it plays havoc with my hemorrhoids.:o
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    #33

    Mar 29, 2009, 11:06 AM

    You have to be in a certain mood for this back door action. But yours was funny!
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    #34

    Mar 29, 2009, 11:16 AM

    I don't know, I have never tried but I would with the right person. I just had this conversation with a man, he was open to me using a strap on on him. Although this was a hypothetical conversation.
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    #35

    Mar 29, 2009, 01:47 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Synnen View Post
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    Synnen agrees: Just hope you feel that way about PITCHING anal sex, too.
    Absolutely Syn :cool:
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    #36

    Mar 29, 2009, 02:03 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by friend4u178 View Post
    Absolutely Syn :cool:
    Didn't expect that. You've never tried anal sex M? Can I ask why? Will you answer me if I do ask why? ;)
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    #37

    Mar 29, 2009, 02:11 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    Didn't expect that. You've never tried anal sex M? Can I ask why? Will you answer me if I do ask why? ;)
    Just never really interested me Alty , is that a bad thing?? I'm not saying I wouldn't try it if SHE really wanted it.

    Each to his own I suppose ;)
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    #38

    Mar 29, 2009, 02:12 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by friend4u178 View Post
    Just never really interested me Alty , is that a bad thing??? I'm not saying I wouldn't try it if SHE really wanted it.

    Each to his own I suppose ;)
    Not a bad thing, I was just curious. ;)

    Big hug Mmykins. :)
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    #39

    Mar 29, 2009, 02:52 PM

    I have tried receptive anal (strap-on or similar device.. ) from my wife-it is something that I enjoy-although she does not like the idea of me receiving-so much.

    We have tried anal before (her receiving), and she enjoys it. Not very often though.

    Interesting to note, anal pushes her over the brink (orgasm) considering she has never climaxed during normal intercourse-it's an intensely pleasurable feeling..
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    #40

    Mar 29, 2009, 03:25 PM

    Very open X.

    Well done for being so open minded.

    From what I have heard a lot of men couldn't do it. (Whether they admit to wanting to or not!)
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