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    heartbreakkid13 Posts: 31, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 20, 2009, 07:11 AM
    Summer love gone
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    Hey everyone I have a question that's been really bothering me... well me and my girlfriend were suppose to get back together for the summer but everything is pretty much gone we both don't want to get into relationships.. but the thing that bothers me the most is its killing me what she's going to do this summer cause were not together... should we still keep in contact even though its going to make it that much harder to let go but at least I can see what's she's up too?
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    Jun 20, 2009, 07:16 AM
    When your heart is broken the best thing to do for yourself is try to move on. If you keep in contact with her, you will never get over her.
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    Jun 20, 2009, 07:43 AM

    But then you loose everything you had with the person? But I guess your right
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    Jun 20, 2009, 07:52 AM
    Unfortunately that is what usually happens when relationships end.
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    Jun 20, 2009, 08:10 AM

    The idea of a break up, is to move on, and build new things with other people.

    Ever try to hold on to something you can't have? You try so hard, but can't keep it. But you knew that, but want to stubbornly try any way.

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