Originally Posted by
tizzy50
i have a question... ill start my NC today and i dont know if i should delete her from my facebook and my myspace pages.. wouldnt she think im trying to ignore her by forgeting her and finding someone else?... cause before when she broke up with me i told her that i did accept her decision but i would be always there by her side in case she regrets it or even if she just feels down or needs me for anything.. yeah i know i shouldnt have said that, i know... but can anyone tell me if i should just delete her and if so for how long? because once i delete her from my friendslist she wont be able to contact me at all regardless if she wants to apologize or even if she wants me back
YES you delete her because otherwise you won't last with No Contact. You'll be continually checking to see what she's doing and that'll just leave you stuck at square one. Stating that she won't be able to contact you already shows you have false hope and you really want her to , that's not how No Contact works , and if you don't do it properly your healing process will just linger on forever.
When you are completely over her , which will take some time and won't be easy , you can reinstate her if you like , but you'll find when that time comes you won't even want to.
I suggest you start your own thread , you will get a lot more people to help you through the journey , and it helps you vent and get stuff off your chest instead of having the temptation to contact her.
Good Luck!