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    Mar 15, 2009, 12:18 PM
    How to deal with disrespect.
    So, I just move into this house with my husband 19 month old son. My best friend calls me after living here for 2 weeks and says her mom is kicking her out and has no where else to go. Along with this immature guy that is mooching off her and everyone around him. And now they have been living in my house with NO jobs for the past month and a half. My friend Lindsey is collecting unemployement which helps a little, but my real issue is her friend Timmy who walks around MY house like he owns the place, and is really rude, and has no manners. To top it all off he swears at my 19 month old son! I want him out now! But if he goes Lindsey goes and they have no where to go but sleep in her car. What should I do!? :mad::mad::mad:
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    Mar 15, 2009, 12:20 PM

    Your baby comes first. It is not your problem if they have to sleep in a car because they wouldn't live by your rule/respect you, your family and your generosity. Make this clear to them. If they do not agree chuck them out.
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    Mar 15, 2009, 12:34 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by templelane View Post
    Your baby comes first. It is not your problem if they have to sleep in a car because they wouldn't live by your rule/respect you, your family and your generosity. Make this clear to them. If they do not agree chuck them out.

    Your absolutely right.. Thank you! But husband dosen't back me up and dosen't stick up for me because now Timmy is his hang out buddy... So I am kind of in a catch 22. I'm made out to be the bad guy.
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    Mar 15, 2009, 06:14 PM

    Am I to understand that your husband let's not just anybody, but a "buddy" swear at his baby?

    This has to end yesterday. You tell your husband that he better grow a pair and when someone swears at a your baby he better correct that immediately. In 16 years when junior crashes the car, maybe swearing at him then is acceptable, but it sure as hell isn't now while some dead beat, that I have to pay for walks around doing nothing. Let me be as clear as I can. HIM! Get him out of that house now, and if your husband doesn't have the balls to see what this is doing to your child start the divorce, because the child doesn't need to be around a grown man that allows someone to start insulting a 2 year old.
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