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    #21

    Feb 16, 2009, 03:48 PM

    Yeah, at my school? NO way! Where can I?
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    #22

    Feb 16, 2009, 03:51 PM

    Well I am surprised, but maybe I shouldn't be, but why isn't this information given out when you had the abortion?

    What is the problem with talking to the counselors at your school? They would be a good option. What about talking to your parents, telling them you would like some counseling.
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    Feb 16, 2009, 03:53 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Justwantfair View Post
    Well I am surprised, but maybe I shouldn't be, but why isn't this information given out when you had the abortion?

    What is the problem with talking to the counselors at your school? They would be a good option. What about talking to your parents, telling them you would like some counseling.
    I am already accused of cutting myself at my school. Being accused for being pregnant won't help
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    Feb 16, 2009, 03:53 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by RachelandChris View Post
    Well they did give me instructions, but I didn't listen. And I can't call them because they are closed. anyway I just want to know what I can't do
    They didn't give a printed sheet? So you don't do anything strenuous until you can contact them.
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    Feb 16, 2009, 03:54 PM

    That's a good question. What's wrong with the counselor at school? What about the one at the abortion clinic? You can talk to them when you go back for your check-up.
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    Feb 16, 2009, 03:57 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by RachelandChris View Post
    I am already accused of cutting myself at my school. being accused for being pregnant wont help
    Who would know and accuse you of being pregnant? Who would tell anyone else, it's a confidential meeting to get together with your school counselor.
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    Feb 16, 2009, 03:57 PM

    Yeah I can. Counselors creep me out sometimes though, and I have big problems with trusting people
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    Feb 16, 2009, 04:00 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by RachelandChris View Post
    Yeah I can. Counselors creep me out sometimes though, and I have big problems with trusting people
    Counselors are the best people to trust, there isn't a dependency, you don't see them or need to see them everyday in your life. You can spill all of your intimate secrets and they by law aren't allowed to tell anyone else anything you tell them in confidence, unless you are a danger to yourself or others.

    They are there to listen and advise and see you through this difficult time in your life. It is just as liberating as spilling your guts on here except they are trained professionals.
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    Feb 16, 2009, 04:01 PM

    Yeah. I might go see the counselor, I don't know yet.
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    Feb 16, 2009, 04:31 PM
    Is there a Planned Parenthood or AIDS support network in your area? I think they will give condoms for free. Please, please don't put yourself through this again. Always use birth control until the time you really want a baby. Please do a computer search and see what options there are in your area. I would think that you shouldn't participate in any phys-ed classes for at least ten days. Can you make an excuse?
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    Feb 16, 2009, 04:46 PM

    Most abortion clinics can give you a note from physical activity from school and/or work and the name isn't on the sheet, just the doctor.

    What city and state do you live in?
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    Feb 16, 2009, 05:00 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by ChihuahuaMomma View Post
    Most abortion clinics can give you a note from physical activity from school and/or work and the name isn't on the sheet, just the doctor.

    What city and state do you live in?
    I live in Sacramento, California

    Really? I didn't know that I could get a note
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    Feb 16, 2009, 05:01 PM

    Oh you can absolutely get a note.

    Also, here is a link to a Planned Parenthood in your area. Search Results: sacramento (site:plannedparenthood.org )
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    Feb 16, 2009, 05:02 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by ChihuahuaMomma View Post
    Oh you can absolutely get a note.

    Also, here is a link to a Planned Parenthood in your area. Search Results: sacramento (site:plannedparenthood.org )
    Oh. Thank you so much :]
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    Feb 16, 2009, 11:49 PM

    You're welcome. Please be smarter from now on. You're now armed with experience on what happens if you don't and information for wiser choices. ALSO, you have the wonderful big-hearted folks of AMHD! Good luck, sweetie.

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