[BOOKSERPNT]

I Have Been With, And Am Now Engaged To My Boyfriend Of 6 Yrs. We Used To Have A Great Sex Life... Apparently It Is Me. I Just Don't Feel Like Having Sex All Of The Time Anymore, I Would Rather Have Great Sex Every Once In Awhile Than Routine Sex All Of The Time. I Realise That We Should Try New Things Blah Blah Blah What Happens When You Have Already Been Kinky And Your Sick Of That To? He Thinks Im A Prude... Am I? What Should I Do? Is This Normal For A 24 Year Old Woman, Or Am I Some Sort Of Freak?::( :( :(

[educatedhorse_2005]

Men and women go through dry spells.
Women will have periods in her life when she wants it all the time.
Then one day she won't want it for a while.
Men go through the same thing.
But the worst part about it they don't go through these spells at the same time.
When you want it he doesn't and when he wants you don't.

[talaniman]

I,I,I, What does your b/f think, is he happy? Do you talk and listen? Is it your sex life and he just visits. YOU have been together long enough to talk and listen to each other and work it out so your both happy.

[Krs]

I agree with Tal, talk to him about it!

But I can say you are NOT a freak.
Im 27, been married for 2 yrs now but been together in total of 8 years.

I now got to that stage, sort of like you.
Its phases I think that we go through!

[lee t]

Yes Phases... nothing makes you feel as loney as when your partner denies you affection. There has to be a happy medium. A man has to satisfy his Love ,Lust, and Primal needs.Do you satisfy them all? Maybe 1 or 2? Men are waiting to exhale too you know.His constant wanting may be a sign that he is looking for something to quench his thirst but is not able to .Sex is only one aspect of a relationship. They are all complicated. Live Love and Learn

[binx44]

I've even been though a stage where I didn't want sex all the time and my boyfriend did and I'm 19. I'm sure you'll get over it.. sometimes I find men don't understand why we don't like "falling into routine" and having sex All the time... they differ from us in that aspect.. they also don't always understand that us women can't be turned on as quck or easily as they do and when we're not in the "mood" they sometimes think its all their faults.. so yea.. maybe you should talk about it. Good luck

Have a good one

[Krs]

I agree with Binx44 totally!

And also I believe when you say that men don't understand that us women can't be turn on a quick or easily as they do and also its very easy for a women to be turned on and off, if those buttons are not ticked properly ;)