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angels1 · Jan 25, 2009, 06:49 PM

So I've been dating this girl for a few months and I really like her, we just got over some problems about spending too much time together, and so I gave her all the space she needed. She then told me that she wants to be with me and no one else, but now every time we go out she brings her best friend along, I feel like she would rather spend all day with her best friend than me, what can I do to get her to want to spend time alone with me?

jodj · Jan 26, 2009, 02:46 PM

You need to talk to her hun
Book a table at a restaurant (doesnt have to be fancy, just a place where you have to book so she doesn't have the opportunity to bring her friend). After you've orderd and while waiting for the food tell her exactly how you feel about her and how much she means to you, but you would like to have more nights alone. And ask for a compramise so that she doesn't feel like she's being attacked as she may become defensive and rebel against any ideas you have.
If you need more help just ask me k?
Hope I've helpd a little
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Nestorian · Jan 26, 2009, 02:52 PM

Originally Posted by angels1

So ive been dating this girl for a few months and i really like her, we just got over some problems about spending to much time together, and so i gave her all the space she needed. She then told me that she wants to be with me and no one else, but now everytime we go out she brings her best friend along, i feel like she would rather spend all day with her best friend than me, what can i do to get her to want to spend time alone with me??

Talk to her, but make sure she knows you just want to talk the two of you. Is this friend a guy or a girl? Be open and honest as well as kind to her needs.

Take care

450donn · Jan 26, 2009, 03:35 PM

Nothing other than tell her the truth. She then has to make a decision you or her friends.

Aphrodite77 · Jan 28, 2009, 07:31 PM

When your making plans with her decide if it's going to be a one on one thing or if you should bring your friend and make it a hang out.. and depending on what she wants that's what your going to do.. if anything you have every right to nicely demand some time alone w/ her.. however maybe she's just trying the whole let's-not-see-each-other-too-much-so-we-don't-get-bored tactic... which works usually because you miss the person more.. however, if her friend's presence is bothering u.. U should talk about it because that's the only way to solve it..