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    biggdawg234 Posts: 7, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 25, 2009, 02:47 PM
    "Goth" girl.
    Hi, I'm kind of best friends with a girl who would be considered "goth" and I kind of have a "crush" on her, if you will.:cool: She isn't really a Christian (She believes in some biblical things), but I am not as Christ-like as I should be. This is sort of a two-question post. How would I go about asking her out and should I try to convert her into a Christian?:confused:(Which I would believe to be wrong in the sense that, some people will change what they believe when they want to.)
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    Jan 25, 2009, 02:51 PM

    No, No, and NO did I say no,

    First you do not go into a relationship to "change" someone, in dating you either like them as they are.

    Next you don't convert them, if they want to accept Christ they will, you lead them to Christ by showing how much Christ is doing in your life.

    So you get your own life in order and become more Christ like yourself, and make her want it

    So if you want to date her, you go up and ask her to go to >>>> with you Friday night, If you want to witness to her, you fix your issues in your faith and let it be seen inyour life
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    Jan 27, 2009, 11:23 AM

    If you can't accept someone for who they are, leave them alone.
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    Jan 27, 2009, 12:13 PM

    You are with someone for who they are, not who you want them to be

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