[loves_daddy1]

OK I am almost fifteen but according to my parents they won't let me date until I am 16 but ia m but now that I am with this guy his cuzin likes me and this guy I have liked since like ever likes me and now I have no idea what to do I mean I like all of them and I don't want to choose because it is hard can someone help me?

[valinors_sorrow]

At the risk of sounding like an old fuddy duddy, it may be that waiting until you are a little older will leave you better able to navigate some of the tricky business of dating, which is why your parents set the limit they did, okay? And I am not advocating you disobey your parents here, either. But with that said, I can also appreciate your curiosity and so lets talk a bit about dating and personal feelings.

Dating is light, fun, and not too intimate. Nothing exclusive and nothing too deep-- got that? But it's also something that you should never ever compete in or invite others to compete for you in-- girls or guys. This is not a race to see who can land the hottest boyfriend the soonest. Do you get what I mean about that?

You say you don't want to choose but you already have in a way by "being with that one guy" in your own words. You can't date the cousin after dating the guy, unless they both make it clear its okay. There are just too many fish in the sea to begin with and it could cause hurt feelings. The one thing you don't want to do is feel all important and sought after at the expense of another's feelings -- that is some really wicked bad stuff that will gain you a terrible reputation and the thing about a bad reputation is then only certain people will approach you and you get stuck in a terrible circle. Please please be kind and considerate when dating, your reputation is important here -- it will come back to you over the years tenfold.

I hope this helps and if you have any more questions, you can post them here and we'll answer those too, sweet girl!