Oh. Wow, you sound a lot like me. I don't know your exact situation, but I'm going to try and give you some advice to save you from the heart-breaking break-up I just went through. I had the same problem - he gave reasons for me to get upset (usually it was because I thought he didn't care enough), and I am a major drama queen. He got fed up, and ended it. I was cold, and mean, just like you said you were, and then I begged him to take me back, and that just made the situation worse, because now he doesn't even want to be my friend.
DON'T DO EITHER OF THOSE THINGS!! Meaning, don't be cold and mean anymore, and don't beg him. Stop constantly calling him and messaging him (if you're doing that), and as hard as this will be, give him a little time and space to cool down BEFORE the situation gets worse. Trust me, I know. Give it like a week. If he contacts you, then great, talk to him! But be calm, and composed, and DON'T over-react, be mean, beg, or guilt him into ANYTHING! Let him come to you, and if he doesn't call you/contact you within the next week, THEN you can call him or leave him a message. But only ONE call or ONE message.
After that, if he STILL isn't talking to you, give him some more space. Space, or a break is MUCH better than a full-on "done forever" break-up. I hope you listen to me and I can save you the heartache that I am going through. I wish I had someone tell me this a few weeks ago/last month.
I hope I helped, and good luck! Also, tell him how much you love him, but not in a begging/pleading kind of way. Just make it obvious you care, in a healthy way.
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